NEW question about oral!!! Ya gotta see THIS one!!

**JRod** · 11-02-2010 09:40 AM

Not trying to push the envelope here but heck everthing else about sex is discussed on here so why not lol. So there is a move in most porn movies that I was wondering how many Real woman actually do. I think it's sexy as He!! and I DO understand that relating most things seen in porn to real life can get me yelled at (haha) but here it goes........Performing oral on your man after he's been in you, prior to orgasm, without "cleaning" it, perhaps done in between position change. What's your take on it?

**lizzardb63** · 11-02-2010 09:43 AM

I've done it...but I was drunk, lol, so I didn't care much. Normally, no we don't do that, but it was the heat of the moment. It was sloppy or anything, so don't get me wrong...gosh that sounded gross, sorry... but no, it wouldn't be anything that would happen on a normal basis. Kudos to those who do want to do it. Whatever floats your boat! lol

**lizzardb63** · 11-02-2010 09:44 AM

wasnt*

**Agony_Aunt** · 11-02-2010 09:44 AM

Well how do you know that in porn, the man doesnt clean, you don't see evreything that goes on apart from what the camera's are on.
And probably the producer of the porn doesn't feel the need to show the man cleaning himself before continuing.
So I'm just wondering now whether it's actually done without cleaning, or you just don't see him cleaning!

**JRod** · 11-02-2010 09:50 AM

Good point Agony but the point of the question isn't to discuss the editing practices in the porn industry lol ;-)
-Question is, do you do it? What's your take on doing it?

**Agony_Aunt** · 11-02-2010 09:56 AM

Originally Posted by JRod

Good point Agony but the point of the question isn't to discuss the editing practices in the porn industry lol ;-)
-Question is, do you do it? What's your take on doing it?

It was just a little question that popped in to my head when I read it!

But me, personally. It's a no. But I'm not all that fussed about it. I know he's went down on me after he's been in there. So not sure now why I would want him to clean when he more a less does it?
What is your take on it Jrod. Do you think men should clean?

**Rediscovered** · 11-02-2010 09:58 AM

My take is that it's just part of making love...not something I even think about.

**WildChild** · 11-02-2010 10:16 AM

Have done. Totally not a big deal.

However I would point out that what you see far too often in porn is the very unhealthy behavior of going from anal to oral or vaginal sex. This is stupidly unhealthy. I've had Hep A (the curable kind you get from fecal material - got it from eating a nice leafy green salad at a potluck) you don't want it, you don't want anyone you have even the tiniest bit of caring about to get it. Women can also get really nasty vaginal infections from fecalcoliform bacteria. The porn industry is grossly irresponsible for promoting this type of behavior.

The prep work for this type of sexual activity in a porn film is what you don't see. The woman may fast for a couple days, multiple enemas, they have a device for injecting lube - you don't see it but its there. In some cases they employ various methods of preventing disease transmission, again you don't see it.

I have never seen a condom used in male/female porn. Interestingly gay porn frequently shows them being used.

**JRod** · 11-02-2010 10:40 AM

Agony, my take is if we are clean everything is a go. With us we don't ALWAYS shower right before sex but for me I'd like to be fresh before my girl performs on me. I just think it's courteous and makes for a more pleasurable experience for her. As for her, she does not have odor or taste issues so again, I don't think it is necessary to clean after I've been inside her.

**LanaBear** · 11-02-2010 10:41 AM

I do it all the time... I don't even think about it, why would I, it's not as if I'm nasty down there. I 'sample' myself frequently to make sure everything is a-okay down there, should any spontaneous action come up. But, in between position changes, lol, I find myself down there for a little bit and he does the same.