Thread: my partner cant handle my sex drive

8-10 times a day does sound like a lot to me. I could have never kept up with that even in my 20's. I think that most men (if they are honest about it) would say the same. There are many documented cases of women like this and its not easy to resolve. I did read recently of one such woman that went through numerous partners before finding a man that could actually handle 10 times a day. They are lucky to have found each other (but I can't imaging how they have much time for anything else but sex). I think that WildChild may have the best solution. Focus on the quality. If he can control his ejaculations, he should be able to wear you out before he comes the first time. It is certainly possible to give a woman numerous orgasms in a single session. If you try that you may increase your satisfaction without such a high frequency.

I think it's normal to sometimes have sex 2 or 3 times in a day at the beginning of a relationship. I've never heard of any guy being able to do it 8 - 10 times in a day. His age should have little to do with it. At any age, that is excessive.

Anything that is pleasurable can have addictive qualities. Having some form of moderation is usually best in most situations. Spend more time with each other doing things besides having sex so your relationship can grow.

I agree with WC's comment of quality instead of quantity. Do you two engage in lots of foreplay? Do you tease each other and focus on all parts of the body instead of just each other's genitals? Do you try and get each other to have more than one orgasm in a session? Also, maybe sometimes he could just give you oral instead and give his penis a rest. There's nothing wrong with having a high sex drive but also be mindful of your partner. Masturbate if you need to, just give him a break lol.

My girl went was like that when she was pregnant, we has sex about 12 times a day every day. we where your age. tell him enjoy when i'm willing to give it.
I dont what to sound like a A-hole but after the baby she was the same way. so yes i had problems keeping up with her,i would out is he hit matured early in life and a few test sowed she was in her prime much faster then normal women he age.

So i bet you started out in life young, and now you are in your prime. it 100% perfectly normal to me if you are the same as her.i know now that if i shower more then she will calm down. a mans smell or B.O. can do a few things to a women that is in love with that man. the small can make you sick, make you horny, or calm you down. it just depends, i tested it with my girl she said it does every thing i just said. it may just be us but you can try that if you are willing.

I think you do have to compromise with your partner, that's always the best way. Do it for him, I know you want to give to him but he can't take all that you want to give so you have to adjust. Maybe it would help to think of it this way - you love him and want him to feel loved but he can't feel that if you are not willing to compromise. So think of that and decide on how many times and stick to that. I think the less sex you have the more control you will have. Remember, he is not a sex machine with an erect manhood. He may actually feel like a sex object. If he does feel that way, do you think you can control yourself so he feels that you love him not only his erect manhood? Just a thought.

Originally Posted by loulou22

He also feels i need to go the doctor, he enjoys it very much as i do mix it up a lot and like to please him more than myself sometimes he loves the fact that i am different and doesnt find it painful as i am always turned on and never dry! i have used lubes but mainly edible and thats for me to use oral its not just sex i want, i constantly just have to touch it! its becoming very hard for him as i cant control my actions, he feels he is failing me and gets very frustrated that we cant just cuddle with out me wanting to touch him. Its like a craving.

Nothing wrong with that - ENJOY IT! BE PROUD OF IT!
Like I said - I wish she was still in that phase now

...and don't think its YOU... It seems to me that for his age, he should be more into it! Maybe he should see a doctor? eh?