Thread: How much is to much in bed

Hi all,
Well i got few Question for you lady's.

First can a mans penis be to large for you in length and diameter.
i mean i'm not huge in length at about 7.5 inches but in diameter See photo of C ring it only goings around my shaft.


2nd my girl whats no less then 6 big orgasm when we do have sex. i can last that long, but its still 2hrs. Is that a lot i mean 6 at least we have gone to 15 one night, but i spent the next day in bed drinking water.

3rd if she does get her 6 or more orgasms she is tender for days, and doesn't what sex for weeks.
do i just need to say no you get 1 good orgasm, and play the next night, or the day after.
Or if there is a product that can be used for the tender problem.

2 hours?! sod that! half hour's plenty for me (without foreplay)

Lube would help to prevent soreness, or just not going for 2 hours. 6 is loooaads...I'm happy with 1...2 at a push! Enough is as good as a feast as Mary Poppins would say.

LOL marry poppins. we has done the lube she doesnt like it. she claims it kills the feeling.

and ty god i knew 2 hrs was long but she loves it that long, and my back or cheat hates me the next day from her nails 6 orgasms later

you both must be raw!

I know what she means by kills the feeling but I'd only say it dulls it slightly, less friction but its still slippy slidey fun for me

It might be worth having a word with her about it, is 2 hours and 6 orgasms worth being that sore for? not for me! Would she be happy with 6 orgasms spread between oral, handjobs and sex?

Originally Posted by shweedart

you both must be raw!

I know what she means by kills the feeling but I'd only say it dulls it slightly, less friction but its still slippy slidey fun for me

It might be worth having a word with her about it, is 2 hours and 6 orgasms worth being that sore for? not for me! Would she be happy with 6 orgasms spread between oral, handjobs and sex?

Well that's the thing that's what we do. i Give her oral for 2 maybe 3 of them. then a toy, then finish with myself. We have to get her ready for me. i would love to give her handjobs but she say it to much to fast, i can see it playing with her g-spot, and Clitoris and the same time.

I dont ever get raw even when it was all me for the 15.

She is some woman lol I really wouldn't know what to suggest then if she doesn't like lube.

That's a lot! But what the! I've had about that much once and my "sweet little thing" just closed on him. It didn't want any more.

Maybe try to spread it out during the week or shorten the duration - it's kinda like bringing home a slice of cheesecake I love - I eat it one bite at a time, till I finish it eventually in 3-4 days. Lol.

Alternate oral for her and you with penetration every other day so she won't be that sore, I suppose.

Well i guess less sex for her or smaller gear on me, i only see one of the 2 happening. ty for you time.

I done that to She loves penis, she will just have to deal with less sex.

How about not using the C ring sometimes?

Hmm,

I would personally not be cool with my partner dictating so strictly the terms of our sexual conduct, but that's just me.

Sex, in my opinion, is best when it's optimally shared, not just one partner strictly satisfying the terms of the other. That rings a little dictatorial to me.

I really don't mean to pass judgment. If you are happy with that arrangement, then so be it. However, the fact that you are here asking advice at all suggests to me that you're not 100% satisfied with the current state of your sexual affairs.

I personally think that you need to be able to communicate your needs and desires to her.
I know that my husband would be utterly miserable if I were to decide unilaterally to go weeks without sex after insisting that he deliver a prescribed number of orgasms. He would be frustrated and feel used.

Have you talked to her seriously about your needs and desires and how her particular demand for a constant minimum or orgasms in one session is actually making *you* less satisfied overall??

Sex involves two people, not just one satisfying the other.