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    Default Help, new to sex, not sure if what I am feeling is normal

    Hello,
    I'm recently became sexually active. I've only had sex twice, and I don't know if what I am feeling is normal. I went to the gyno and she said that the more sex I have the more comfortable it will. I expierence the same sensation when I put in a tampon in. When I put a tampon and push the tampon to be releaseed I feel this slight uncomfortable feeling near my lower back, (like buttocks area). The two times I've had sex, I would feel this uncomfortable feeling when he would thrust. I would try to have sex more, but he and I live far apart, and only see him twice a year.

    Is my gnyo right, will this feeling go away once I get use to having sex? Or what I am feeling not normal ?

    I want your input. HELP

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    The gyn is probably right but I think you'll need more than twice a year to get there.
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    I agree with WC... Sex does get better over time, but sex twice a year, well, that's not going to make a difference one way or another.
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    I hope this doesn't offend you isa, but maybe you could get a small vibrator that you could use to let yourself get used to insertion. I know that it is not for everybody, but maybe getting more comfortable with the feeling of something inside you will help you when you are able to have sex with your boyfriend. Just a thought.

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