Thread: Insights

It's all about HOW you do things. WHAT you do is not really so important. As long as you show that every breath you take is so much better because of her, things are looking up.

Took me quite some time to figure this one out.

I like the Original Post, however unfortunately I don't agree that in every case a man always wants to see his woman naked. I wish that was true. I liked Bellalla's post a lot!
I have to say, I do find it interesting that the OP did not chime in on the porn issue at all. I realize it was addressed rather gruffly, however, the main message she was trying to get acrossed, I agree with. How big of an issue porn can be, that is something I didn't learn until I was with someone who looks at it all the time and was not up front about it when we started dating - even when asked about the subject, the answer was much different than the reality I later found out. It had never been an issue in any past relationships, as the viewing/use had never been excessive. When the truth came out much later into the said relationship, I realized that yes, porn absolutely can have a negative effect on a relationship, and relating it to your thread, it IS something a man should think about if he wants to make his relationship a happy one. If he loves his woman, he should respect her feelings and care more about her than beating off to women online.

I think the point about the post-game wrap-up was good. A sports analogy might make sense to some guys :-)

Also, don't forget that many of us do like to see our men naked too. Don't think that only men like naked bodies. I love watching my man shower, dress, undress, and just strole across the bedroom without anything on. I like it coming and going, as a matter of fact :-)

Become her favorite cook (well you can never quite beat her [grand]parents, but that is allright).

Tell her at least five times a day how much you love her, either in words or by small gestures (table set for breakfast, random love emails,...)