mariecurie36

I have been trying to find a forum where women can give real - not giggly I am embarrased - advice about positions.

I enjoy having sex with my boyfriend but for the life of me I have never been able to figure out how to be on top. . .or at least not well.

At one of my annual exams my doctor informed me that my uterus is rather tipped up -- within normal range. But I had never even thought about something like that. My boyfreind informed me that based on his experience my 'tilt' is not extreme at all.

So, back to the position. Somehow I can't figure out the rhythm or even how to effectively go up and down. I end up doing something that is more like sliding (or grinding) which is mildly entertaining or pleasurable but really doesn't work.

Any grand wisdom? Ok. . .how about just tips?

tinkerbell930

Being on top is probably the best position for a woman to "get there". There are many different ways of being on top. I like to lay my upper chest on my husbands chest and move my hips up and down, slowly, he has to have a lot of control when I do that.....then when I feel his hips rising I know he wants it more aggresive so I speed it up...he loses all control then. I think you just need a patient partner if you are unsure. Just tell him to lay there while you try some different rythyms. NO MAN WILL SAY NO TO THAT.....kissing helps too when you are on top...adds some passion to it. Hope that helps a little. Oh yeah...baby oil on his chest and you sliding on it with your chest is also pretty sensual. Not a ton though!

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