Well I've personally been reading this thread whenever there is a comment made, but staying out of it because stuff like this tends to infuriate me and make me say things that sometimes I wish I hadn't, but here goes anyhow (CW I will try to keep my composure [lol]):
#1: The SOB needs to get it into his head that you are not just a sexdoll, and at his beck and wish whenever he desires for whatever he desires. He is bordering on sexual abuse in my opinion, and I have no danged respect for anyone who would treat their woman like this.
#2: Why do YOU keep doing this? You are fueling his confidence that he will be allowed to continue with it; and HE WILL! Until you make it known (and I know you have tried) that this is just not going to happen again and let him know you mean it, he's going to continue to pressure you about it. Why would you ever give in and "just roll over and grit your teeth"? That's just 100 times wrong. Unless you enjoy being manipulated, and abused; and I don't see that here.
Some Other Guy: No there is no shortage, but the forum here is meant to discuss issues that folks are having difficulties with, so sometimes you tend to catch some of the less than stellar accounts of what less than stellar guys are doing to their ladies. Bringing these issues to light is often the first step in recovering from this type of abuse and I personally applaud those who are courageous enough to do so. Also know that assisting these folks helps to instill the fact that there are some of us out there that also find this stuff despicable, and helps others wondering if ALL MEN are like this in knowing that we aren't all dogs that need to be put down.




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