An Easier Way to Swollow?

**lizzardb63** · 11-21-2010 08:55 PM

I know there has been a lot of posts about blow jobs and such, but my boyfriend always wants me to take it in my mouth, which I will do to make him happy. Only problem is, I can't get past the taste of it...I literally gag when I swollow it. I feel bad for gagging, because this must make him feel bad...anyone have any other suggestions to make it a more pleasant experience for me??

**ItsASecret** · 11-21-2010 09:56 PM

I have been trying to find a way as well. That texture is just disgusting but I do my best to keep it under control. Lately I just have not had the courage I guess you can say to take it in the mouth because like you said that taste is just an automatic gag. You can try the typical method of telling him to stop smoking or drinking (if he does), drink more water, eat more fruit, avoid fast food and so on...but it does not always work. Other than that I guess you can try chugging warm liquid-like yogurt even though that will taste sweet and not aversive unless you do not like yogurt. You could also try only taking a little bit in the mouth, like him finishing near your mouth or chin and only getting a bit actually in your mouth so that you slowly get used to the taste (that has been my attempting method every so often).

**lizzardb63** · 11-21-2010 10:07 PM

I know, its just a really unique taste...i usually have something to drink right next to me so once he is finished i can chug something, lol

**jordanh** · 11-22-2010 12:11 AM

can't you "take it in the mouth" and NOT swallow? spit instead?

**kristalyn_04** · 11-22-2010 12:14 AM

What I think is that you shouldn't do something that you don't like to do. I know you want to please your bf, but he should understand this. I'm sure he will be just as satisfied if you don't swallow, so just talk to him.

**SidneyAlive** · 11-22-2010 12:14 AM

Well it really is an acquired taste, i don't mind the taste, it's the texture i don't care for, but every guy i've ever been with loves watching me swallow it so i do, one thing i do is hold my breath while im doing, give that a try, it seemed to help me when i was younger..

**Seeker_Advice** · 11-22-2010 04:07 AM

While I appreciate the sacrifice that you ladies are willing to continue to make, I have to ask; what kind of man would ask the woman he loves to continue to do something that makes her gag?

As a man, I just don't get it.

Sorry!

**shweedart** · 11-22-2010 04:18 AM

I can't swallow. He can cum in my mouth, thats fine but I have to spit...and as long as it doesn't wibble in my mouth on the way to the bathroom I dont mind...I just can't get over the salty eggwhite/phlegm texture.

I even have dreams of it being thick, lumpy and stodgy...like half mixed cake batter...whats that about!

**Mr. Inquisitive** · 11-22-2010 08:32 AM

I don't know what if anything can be done to help ladies in this predicament. I get the impression it is more mental than physical (taste, texture etc.). I tried to do everything to improve the consistancy and taste for my SO but none seemed to help her. Eventually she just took the plunge and now she is fine with doing it. It may also help that I never pressured her do so and was working on taste/texture because she wanted to be able to do it.

Maybe you have that subconcious idea in the back of your mind of "here we go I'm going to have to try and swallow again". You may be pshyching yourself out.

Or maybe its just not for you and you should spit or have him cum elsewhere. I can't speak for every guy but what she does with it means little to me.

**tinycit** · 11-22-2010 09:06 AM

I remember that. It happens. Try not to worry about it. The more experience swallowing that you get, the easier it gets. You get used to the taste and texture. It becomes no big deal. I'm a real swallowing fan. I mean, I love swallowing big time. I had the same gagging problems at one time. It seems like ages ago now. You can't just wake up out of bed in the morning and swallow first thing with a dry mouth. Do be sure that your mouth and throat are ready first. That's as easy as drinking a few sips of water from a glass beforehand to lubricate your mouth and throat. If he's cumming while his penis is in your mouth, try having him pull out and cum into your mouth from a short distance. What helps the most though is to develop a positive and eager attitude. I know not everyone is as big a fan as I am, but eagerness and enthusiasm certainly doesn't hurt. This is something you want to do and do well. Think like you've been in the desert, you're starving and this is your first drink in days. In any case, just keep doing it and you'll get really good at it.