woman on top advice

**shoshannah** · 11-24-2010 10:44 AM

Hi,

My name's Shoshannah and I'm new to the board, and to sex--my boyfriend and I are 20-year old late bloomers who just lost our virginities to each other a few weeks ago. :-)

I'm sort of shy and so haven't been comfortable letting my girl friends know that I'm having sex so I since I can't ask their advice I could use some help here . . . my boyfriend wants us to try woman on top but I'm not sure of the best way to do it. Do I sit on him? Kneel on him? Lie on top of him? and what is the best way for me to move? Any help will be appreciated.

Thank you! :-)

**lizzardb63** · 11-24-2010 10:48 AM

Stradle him with your knees bent on each side of him. (like you're kneeling) and I think the easiest would be to lean towards him like your going to kiss him and just rock back and forth. For deeper penetration, sit back and shift your hips in a circle.

**rcoreyus** · 11-24-2010 01:17 PM

Move in whatever way feels good to you - a lot of the excitement of this position (for the man) is the pleasure his partner can get out of it.

**WildChild** · 11-24-2010 01:20 PM

The answer is, yes.
Why not try them all and see what feels good for both of you? I find that what really does it one time may not another. Its good to have plenty of options. You are both learning and exploring, just have fun with it.