Porn video while having sex

**poppi** · 12-01-2010 12:37 AM

My husband always watch some porn video to keep himself turned on, while having sex.. i just want know is it normal or there something wrong????

**SidneyAlive** · 12-01-2010 01:40 AM

i don't like it when men watch porn, they want you to become the woman in the video they just watched..

**Maximus** · 12-01-2010 02:21 AM

Originally Posted by poppi

My husband always watch some porn video to keep himself turned on, while having sex.. i just want know is it normal or there something wrong????

I am afraid your husband needs to learn that sex has nothing to do with keeping yourself turn on, let alone having anything to do with such a thing called "porn".

Writing an essay over this is probably not what you need...

**foxdana** · 12-01-2010 05:13 AM

I personally don't think this is a problem unless it is the only way he can keep it up!

**stressed** · 12-01-2010 06:25 AM

Recently tried this and my partner's idea was that it would help him stay erect (even though he doesn't have such a problem, but he's insecure about it). It went to... you know where. I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as both partners enjoy it and get to watch an equal amount of time, it can be okay as foreplay, but not every single time, far from it.

If your husband ALWAYS needs porn to have sex then he might be concerned about erection problems (which he probably doesn't have since he's able to have sex in the first place). At this point he must have connected 'successful sex' with watching porn at the same time, so he may find it difficult to disconnect the two and feel very insecure about having sex without it, to the point he may be losing his erection every time due to anxiety.

I don't think this should go on forever though. If he's concerned about his penis he'd better visit a doctor than have sex with you and porn every time, as he misses the point of sex this way. Have a talk with him and tell him what you feel (you didn't mention if you like this or not). You can try to have sex without it and reassure him that you won't feel bad about it if he loses his erection, but this really has to change for the sake of both of you. Watching porn during sex if there's an ED problem is not going to make the problem go away, it will only ruin your sex life.

**Texinator** · 12-01-2010 07:42 AM

Yes, there is something wrong if he has a beautiful naked women in bed with him and yet he needs to watch a plastic surgery parade to stay aroused.

**WildChild** · 12-01-2010 08:01 AM

Once upon a blue moon? It's ok. All the time? There is a problem.
Who is he having sex with then? In his mind? You? To me that is turning you unto a masterbation tool. What happens without the porn?
How do you think he would take if you decided you could only have sex while gazing at the pic of some male movie star?

**Texinator** · 12-01-2010 09:08 AM

"Sure, honey, go ahead and look at your porn while we're trying to have sex, but then I also need something to keep me aroused while you're distracted by the television. Mind if I bring in the gardener?"

**Seeker_Advice** · 12-01-2010 09:20 AM

Agree with TEX.

There's something wrong with a man that needs "additional stimulation" when he is in bed with a woman he loves who is also naked.

"Platic Surgery Parade" LMAO !!

Honestly, I never have really understood porn. I guess it's not for me.