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    To me sex is enjoying the intimacy with my partner. Doing all that needs to feel we are one and connected solely by our body parts and soul together. So when I need sex I will hold her pretty close to me first and then start getting intimate with various acts until we are done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WildChild View Post
    What do you mean?
    How do you define sex?
    I rarely, if ever say I want sex, I usually use other terms for it and I want to make love. Sex in most cases means intercourse, and I want more.

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    I don't say I want sex.

    If we're in the mood I just take it cause i'm hungry for it.

    I never ask for it.

    I just grab my gf and she knows i'm aroused kiss her frantically but not rough around the neck and mouth that usually gets her going followed by groping her gentley and then licking her ears followed by a laugh.

    Seriously ?

    Not sure what you mean ?

    When you say you want sex probably means he wants to take your clothes off and insert his penis into you, thrust in and out and then roll over and go to sleep.

    I guess it can mean anything associated with sex, oral sex, vaginal sex ??? I dont know what your driving at ?

    A is a hard word or it means "shock" or "hurt" or its not associated with real intimacy I dont think.

    Its usually quick wank inside a women and then straight out and zip up. pretty cold I think.

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    i never say anything if i want sex, body language usually get's my mood across..

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    When your DYING FOR IT lol and your bf or man wont f-ck you when you want him so bad >/, Sorry lol I sound desperate XD haha

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    I personally think there's a difference between sex.. and making love.

    My ex partner was touchy on this and always said, we never had sex, we always made love.

    To me I kinda think of sex and the actual act, with no emotional feelings. ie. A one night stand or something. And making love is between two people who love each other.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Agony_Aunt View Post
    To me I kinda think of sex and the actual act, with no emotional feelings. ie. A one night stand or something. And making love is between two people who love each other.
    But sometimes two people who love each other can just have sex, just for the pure physical satisfaction.
    Sometimes one perrson can need it badly, and the other can fulfill that need without making a great emotional experience out of it. It's a two-way street.
    Sometimes.

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    sex is a foundation of love... if i want sex i make sure that my hubby would feel it... and the rest is just between the two of us..

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    Quote Originally Posted by WildChild View Post
    I see making love, having sex and f-ing as different things. I know they ultimately involve the same body parts but they are very different to me.
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    When you say you want sex what do you mean........

    We are human, our bodies react... We get that urge, feeling that overwhelms us, is it though our feeling or if we are with someone, the lust, or is it the need to connect, feel loved?

    Yes, making love is intimacy... It's a bond... It's connecting.
    Yes, that word is horny simply put but still you want it only from your partner..
    What about sensuality? Sometimes as a human, we feel calm, beautiful, in tune, everything feels beautiful and so we want more beauty to feel...

    Sexual
    Horny
    Sensual

    Yes, they do involve the same body parts but the feeling is very different pending on which plane you are on.. and whom you are with doing it, sometimes you will go for horny with "a person" .. Ultimately you will go sensual with someone you feel comfortable with, want to explore, experiment, feel safe with, and be attracted to.. or, with the man you love... It can be both and same as sexual, the need for intimacy even if it is for self, or for love....

    Horny is plain horny... You want it, your body has reacted, and you need it, no matter whether your in love or not....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Agony_Aunt View Post
    I personally think there's a difference between sex.. and making love.

    My ex partner was touchy on this and always said, we never had sex, we always made love.

    To me I kinda think of sex and the actual act, with no emotional feelings. ie. A one night stand or something. And making love is between two people who love each other.
    I used to think like that Just to add.... You can have sex with emotional feelings, lets face it, a woman sleeps with a man, it's emotional straight away, she hopes he will love her, date her more, if it's all new... There are emotions... She may also be in the closet, been on her own for some time, find a chemistry but want love and so she gives emotionally.

    A one night stand also usually by the woman anyway, is usually a conscious decision... That's all it is, one night, I have no emotions, it is what is is, I am going to take advantage of the naughty side of me.... That's different...

    Making love, is so different... It's a decision to bond together, ... and so you do...both of you.... so your in sinc to what you want...
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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