Pain when he fingers me

**cutieboo2013** · 12-09-2010 09:02 PM

My boyfriend and I have been dating for awhile and we've come to the point where we are ready to advance our relationship physically. We've started off with him fingering me. When he first starts I like it, it feels good. But slowly it just begins to be uncomfortable. It's almost like a burning sensation in my vagina while he's fingering me. When he does it he moves his finger in and out repeatedly and i wonder if he is just like rubbing me raw. From time to time he'll leave his finger in and massage a little and it feels much better that way. I hate to go into so much detail but I'm really looking for a good answer. I'm still a virgin and I've been fingered one other time and it was the same way. My current boyfriend isn't rough with it at all but it's just not working out so well. Is it possible that I'm just that tight or is it something he is or isn't doing? If you can help me in any way I'd appreciate it. Thank you.

**jns** · 12-09-2010 09:16 PM

Do you have orgasms? Do you get wet? It sounds like he is focusing on your vagina, not your clitoris. If he gets you to orgasm, you should have enough lubrication, but if you don't, use some.

**brianna...** · 12-15-2010 04:14 PM

If its starting to hurt your most likley dry, or at first your wet and he drys you out, this happens to me all the time but, make sure when he is fingering you his nails are cut and not sharp, because if your dry he could end up cutting you, i had this happen before and it starts to burn a little very uncomfortable. so just take it slowly and make sure you stay wet.

**ilovhr** · 12-16-2010 01:01 AM

use some lubes.

**Little_Man_in_the_Boat** · 12-16-2010 07:03 AM

This kind of behaviour is silly.

Thrusting his finger in and out is pointless in my opinion, it's like he's been watching porn and thinks somehow that it will lead to you experiencing orgasm.

It's so pathetic to hear this over and over again.

I guess I will have to keep telling people that porn is not about furthering the enjoyment of sex its about commerce, its about exploiting people for finacial gain.