Thread: Help! my boyfriend doesn't turn me on at all anymore!

I've been dating my bf for 6 months now. He's pretty much perfect from getting along with my father amazingly to his 'downstairs' size. He's great an would be the one to marry eventually if everything stays the same.

When we first started dating, we had sex. A lot. Then we calmed down a little and got to where we had sex a healthy amount. After school started again and then started to get stressful, I started seeing him a lot less even though he lives with me. I just stopped feeling turned on by him. I get turned on by other guys easily! Just by a cute guy flirting with me. Here's the catch, after about 6-8 months I always end up breaking up with my boyfriends for some reason or another. I dont know if I'm just not ready to be with this one guy for the rest of my life or if me just having no sexual attraction for him is because of how my life is right now... I need advice!

Well maybe you should try role playing or maybe you should hint to him to make things more romantic like candles, flowers or music to get you in mood, or have him be more aggressive but in a sexual way, idk but hope it helps.
Bri

When life gets hectic and responsibilities (housework, laundry, paying bills) gets factored in it's normal to have your sexual desire to subside a little bit. You say that you are turned on by other guys... well, think about it this way... they don't remind you of your responsibilities, busy life etc.... I think you and your boyfriend need to set aside a date night once a week where you can relax with each other and try to "reconnect" so to speak. It sounds like you have a good relationship thus far. People get busy with their routines but you have to find a way to make time for each other and try new things in that date night time you have together so it feels like the honeymoon phase when you first got together.