Thread: Trying to have sex for 1st time!

Me and bf trying to have sex but his penis cant penetrate in...he try hard to push in...both of us are virgin...we try twice oledi...is it my vagina hole too tight o not arouse enuf....we ddint do any foreplay...he cant seem to find the hole...please advice...

first of all be relaxed, don't stress yourself..do some foreplay before inserting..push it slowly and gently...you may use pillow at your back and ask him to insert one inch first then hold on and try to get it harder ..then next inch...and try to harden it again...and keep on trying same ..until your hymen is broken...make sure you are wet enough...ask him to use his tong allot to make you wet..you also give him BJ and make sure his penis is lubricated..

also make sure that you hold his penis and guide into your vagina if he is failing to locate it

dont push it to hard, you should try using lube or maybe have him finger you to help loosen you up a little bit but whatecer you do make sure plenty wet!!

make sure you are comfortable, relaxed, excited, and wet. If you aren't wet enough, use some lube. You should be really wanting for him to enter you--be aching for it. Then open your legs wide and use your hands to guide him in slowly. If you feel any pain, stop and hold his penis where it is for a few seconds. Don't tense up. When your vagina relaxes he can enter a little more take your time. It may go easier if you knel on top. If he's on top, put a pillow under your hips (not your bottom) to help open your up more.