What are the risk's with the " pull out method"?

**mzhk** · 12-28-2010 12:30 AM

Either then std/sti? I'm curious .. I just read about this today. ( sorry for sounding like an idiot! ) I am not that experienced. I donno why lately these kinds of stuff starting to sound interesting to me.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 12-28-2010 12:40 AM

http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...-opinions.html

Do an advanced search, top right hand side and enter the words pull out method to get some other advice

Condoms are pretty much the only method to be safe, with STD's and STI's...

Don't apologise, we all learn new things in life

CW

**mzhk** · 12-28-2010 12:43 AM

wow, you european's are up early!! :-o it must be morning over there. Thank you C/W... i just had a skim it's basically what it says .. simply " pulling out " before.. That does not sound safe at all. Quit risky

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 12-28-2010 01:11 AM

Lol's Australian sweetheart, so like 630pm

Is that the majority of the thread? Surely not.... Pull out method is "not safe" one little swimmer is all that is needed.......

Birth control or condoms are your only safest bet for not getting pregnant.

But STI's STD's are simply don't allow a man to enter without a condom and with trust that he takes it off properly afterwards...Never let them talk you around that you don't need it...It's your life and you need to be protected....

People fib or don't know they have a problem that won't help you..

CW

**mzhk** · 12-28-2010 01:17 AM

sorry, my mistake i keep forgetting your in Australia. Btw? your right on the " talk me around " department. I have someone that's tryin to charm his way into my bed? But he says he'd rather pull out? then put a condom on??? Pulling out doesn't sound safe from the url you gave me. Not safe meaning its not bullet proof...

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 12-28-2010 02:01 AM

White witch is my signature

Glad to see you again, so is that why you are asking? Worried about STI's STD's and he's told you, "na don't worry about it, your safe and your also safe with pregnancy I pull out"....

Let's look at this

He's conning you for sex.

He's talking and telling you , yeah everything's okay.

So he just wants sex, no consideration to you, would you trust that?

And, your old enough to make your own decisions if you just want sex, and don't care being used for it...but, if that's not what your after, don't do it...

Nup it's way not bullet proof, one swimmer is all it takes...

Sounds like he flirts you like the flirt he talks sexually, your curious, interested and yet smart enough to worry about what he is suggesting...Follow your intuition, don't allow this method and honestly, I'd say pftttt go find someone else to have sex with, he's not a safe bet full stop...

CW

**SidneyAlive** · 12-28-2010 03:29 AM

Don't go with the "Pull out" method, nothing but him says he's gonna pull out in time..

**Texasred** · 12-28-2010 06:19 AM

Even if he fully intends to pull out in time, it's not even close to being reliable.
The risks?
You can end up like me with a son who's only 18 years younger than me!
Don't do it unless you're ready for raising kids.

**lilmissdirty** · 12-28-2010 06:55 AM

The risk?

Pretty much the same as with the "not pulling out method".... Maybe a slightly lower chance of getting preggers but not enough to make it worth risking unless you really wanna kid....

**mzhk** · 12-28-2010 06:07 PM

I have a medical condition which will make me less likely to become prego. But the thing of my concern is std/sti stuff... and wht other risk are there..