im in the same boat as you my man, i love going down on her and making her get off from oral.....but with penetration it never seems to happen...i had an ex that would squirt like a fire hose and it turned me on like crazy! my girl now told me many times that shes never even came the way ive made her the last 8months of her life....made her squirt for the first time in her life too...but cant seem to make it happen all the time...dont know if it something im not doing? or if its her own mind state at the time???? but atleast we care about our women enough to try and please them to the best of our abilities and im sure their thankfull for at least that much!