Thread: A new theory of female orgasm. come in, or you will regret forever

thank you for you advice, i will take some action on my way.

clumsygirl, do not get offended just because people do not agree with you. It is not people don't trust what you are talking about, it is they have personal experience proving some of what you have to say is untrue. In this, you have to rethink what they have to say rather then give them impression they are lying and do not know what they are talking about and all you have to say is 100% true. I think most of us agree that a lot of what you have said are true or have some truth to it. We appreciate the work you put into your post. However, your post is based on your own theories.

There are 11 different ways a woman may orgasm and for some it is more difficult than others, just as for some men, it is more difficult than for others. As for urination, as you mentioned in the porn videos, yes it is possible to urinate when aroused. I have to go to the bathroom beforehand if I have any need to or I can't let myself go to be able to orgasm. Our bodies put our foremost needs first. The stimulation down there if you have to go at all, becomes a much worse feeling and it very distracting away from feeling the pleasure you want to. It is very difficult to have an orgasm when you need to go, not easier. if u have a release it is urine likely, not an orgasm that causes you to feel that release. Based on scientific study, a woman has to be relaxed with no fear or distractions to reach orgasm. This seems to hold true in my experiences. I don't mean relaxed as in lying there limp, I mean totally given into the moment and not another care in the world. If women are stressed out or upset with their partners it makes it more difficult for them to reach that state which is why we are less inclined to want to have sex. We have to be put in the mood.

The one other main point I have to TOTALLY disagree with is the "rest period." I guess you misunderstand multiple orgasms. Whereas, I agree the clitoris becomes more sensitive and needs rest from being stimulated too roughly after the first orgasm, it is still possible to go further and be brought to more orgasms. As with a man it can take longer and longer to achieve it with each orgasm, but no rest period is actually needed. In fact, women are MORE sexually driven after an orgasm, not less. If men just knew this, they would be more likely to want to satisfy their partners first. The orgasm is like a burst of pleasure and adrenaline. No, I don't need him trying to get me off again, but I am more inclined to do anything he wants at that point to get him satisfied too and because the orgasm leaves you more sensitive and lubricated, it makes the sex all that much more pleasurable. I want to feel him in me and I am all that much more driven for sex after having an orgasm.

As for trying to publish this, I think you need to work on it more first. Take what others have had to say and maybe rethink things or consider that women may react differently. No journal would publish this, not because you are no big deal, but because you state it all as fact and that no one can argue the points. If you state things as facts you have to have research to back you up. You have to conduct experiments and keep it unbiased. You then use the results to back up what you say is true. Or you can use secondary resources or interviews with women to help support your paper. Then, you need to cite all sources of information used to back up your statements. If you want to publish it as your personal opinion, then you need to rewrite it as an opinion leaving it open for debate. If you can do these things, it does not matter who you are, you can get it published. And if you are concerned about poor English and grammar making it look bad, you can get someone who is better with it to proofread and help you with it.

Originally Posted by clumsygirl

i am sorry for my big fonts, i am so angry that no woman trust what i am talking about.

I expose the secret to all women with my biggest courage, and spent six months on this paper, but the result is you all don't trust me.

i did 99%, no one want to help me do the other 1%

what a sad to woman, besides woman is hard to ejaculate.

I agree with a lot of what you have written.

The only thing I dont know is whether the girl I was with experienced vaginal squirt, simply because she was so wet inside and out. I assume most of the fluid came from the Bartholins glands.

Its my understanding that the fluid does come from the urethra, but does not originate from the bladder.

There is supposed to be a gland called the Skenes gland or the paraurethral gland the has approximatley 31 holes that pump fluid into the urethra, its a bit like a prostate gland and may infact be a evolutionary leftover from gestation.

SO the question of whether she squirted from the urethra or vagina to me is a mystery for two reasons, I dont know if she squirted and if she did I wouldnt know where it came from.