pain during sex, please help

**nicky2007** · 05-25-2007, 05:50 PM

K now this doesnt happen all the time during sex and ive noticed its more common when i carry my pill over, and ive been tested on several occasions so i no its not a std so what it is?

this is what happens, during sex ill start to become really hot and feel like i cant breath properly, then ill start to get a pain in the bottom of my stomach, now if i stop at this point the pain usually isnt that bad and will go away in a few mins. if i carry on, i no i shouldnt but sometimes, acctually more often then not i get caught up in the moment and convince myself the pleasure out does the pain.

But it doesnt, ill then start to get sharp stabbing pains, and the hot/cold sweats will get worse and ill feel like i wanna go the toilet and throw up at the same time, it actually alot like what am like during my time of the month (during a bad month that it)

but the strange thing is once ive been the toilet (for a poo) the pain dissapears within seconds, i mean ill be rolling about on the floor crying in pain, and once the poos out ill absolutly fine, its very strange, and i feel embarresed going by doctors, any ideas on what it may be girls? my belly also gets very hot when all this is happening and i find putting a cold flannel on it soothes the pain a bit.

as you can imagine, it does put me of sex a bit, but i do have a really high sex drive so its annoying. especially seeing as the last time i had sex (around 3 weeks ago!) i was really bad threw up and everything, my boyfriend doesnt seem to want sex anymore, cant blame him really.

so please any advice will be welcomed

tallywa · 06-11-2007, 10:34 AM

the symptoms sound almost exactly like the problems i have with irritable bowel syndrome. what my doctor explained to me is that irritable bowel is caused by stress, so is the sexual situation stressful? [stress can be positive or negative.] when i told my doctor about the stomach pain etc. that i was dealing with, she prescribed me a medicine called librax that i take when it starts to hurt. i would suggest looking into irritable bowel as a possibility.

reyna · 06-11-2007, 08:17 PM

I agree. I have IBS and I also have had the stomach pain during sex. I never researched the cause. It is nice to have some type of idea of why my stomach hurt durring sex.

**nicky2007** · 06-13-2007, 04:06 PM

thanx for the advice, i have thought i may have had ibs for a while now, but the doctor just keeps given fybergel, but i didnt connect that with the pain during sex. maybe when i tell her about the pain during sex, she may acctually do something

keebler · 06-15-2007, 06:28 PM

I have had pain with sex and told Dr and they have not suggested that. I also have other problems tho. They found cysts and fibroids. I have pain all the time but sometimes (during that time of the month gets really bad) One minute I can be crying and the next after sitting on the potty be fine untill im back in the bathroom again. I can go months or days (one never knows when it is going to happen)

05-25-2007, 05:50 PM	#1
nicky2007 VIP Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 53	pain during sex, please help K now this doesnt happen all the time during sex and ive noticed its more common when i carry my pill over, and ive been tested on several occasions so i no its not a std so what it is? this is what happens, during sex ill start to become really hot and feel like i cant breath properly, then ill start to get a pain in the bottom of my stomach, now if i stop at this point the pain usually isnt that bad and will go away in a few mins. if i carry on, i no i shouldnt but sometimes, acctually more often then not i get caught up in the moment and convince myself the pleasure out does the pain. But it doesnt, ill then start to get sharp stabbing pains, and the hot/cold sweats will get worse and ill feel like i wanna go the toilet and throw up at the same time, it actually alot like what am like during my time of the month (during a bad month that it) but the strange thing is once ive been the toilet (for a poo) the pain dissapears within seconds, i mean ill be rolling about on the floor crying in pain, and once the poos out ill absolutly fine, its very strange, and i feel embarresed going by doctors, any ideas on what it may be girls? my belly also gets very hot when all this is happening and i find putting a cold flannel on it soothes the pain a bit. as you can imagine, it does put me of sex a bit, but i do have a really high sex drive so its annoying. especially seeing as the last time i had sex (around 3 weeks ago!) i was really bad threw up and everything, my boyfriend doesnt seem to want sex anymore, cant blame him really. so please any advice will be welcomed

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06-11-2007, 10:34 AM	#2
tallywa Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 2	the symptoms sound almost exactly like the problems i have with irritable bowel syndrome. what my doctor explained to me is that irritable bowel is caused by stress, so is the sexual situation stressful? [stress can be positive or negative.] when i told my doctor about the stomach pain etc. that i was dealing with, she prescribed me a medicine called librax that i take when it starts to hurt. i would suggest looking into irritable bowel as a possibility.

06-13-2007, 04:06 PM	#4
nicky2007 VIP Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 53	thanx for the advice, i have thought i may have had ibs for a while now, but the doctor just keeps given fybergel, but i didnt connect that with the pain during sex. maybe when i tell her about the pain during sex, she may acctually do something

06-15-2007, 06:28 PM	#5
keebler Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 5	I have had pain with sex and told Dr and they have not suggested that. I also have other problems tho. They found cysts and fibroids. I have pain all the time but sometimes (during that time of the month gets really bad) One minute I can be crying and the next after sitting on the potty be fine untill im back in the bathroom again. I can go months or days (one never knows when it is going to happen)