Thread: Young and no sex drive

Hi
what you have experienced is the Coolidge effect.

From Wikpedia is the following description-

"In biology and psychology, the term Coolidge effect describes a phenomenon—seen in nearly every mammalian species in which it has been tested—whereby both males and females exhibit continuous high sexual performance given the introduction of new receptive partners".

The original experiments with rats followed this protocol:[4] A male rat would be placed into an enclosed large box with four or five female rats in estrus. He would immediately begin mating with all of the female rats repeatedly until eventually exhausted. Although the females would continue nudging and licking him to continue, he would not respond. However, if a novel female were introduced to the box, he would become alert and find the ability to mate once again with the new female. This phenomenon is not limited to Rattus norvegicus.[5] It is attributed to an increase in dopamine levels and its subsequent effect upon the limbic system.[6]

Human males experience a post-ejaculatory refractory period after sex. They are temporarily incapable of engaging in sex with the same female after ejaculation and require time to recover full sexual function. In popular reference, the Coolidge effect is the well-documented phenomenon that the post-ejaculatory refractory period is reduced or eliminated if a separate female becomes available.[7] This effect is cited by evolutionary biologists as a reason why males are more likely to desire sex with a greater number and variety of partners than females.[7]

While the Coolidge effect is usually seen demonstrated by males—that is, males displaying renewed excitement with a novel female—Lester and Gorzalka developed a model to determine whether or not the Coolidge effect also occurs in females. Their experiment, which used hamsters instead of rats, found that it does occur in lesser degrees in females.[8][9]

This effect has been know for at least a few thousand years- many societies have applied tricks to get around it.
To sum it up they make slow love without orgasm. Sounds a bit of a let down I know but after a few months things start to change in a big way. - Google the Coolidge effect.

Originally Posted by WildChild

How is he treating you?
Do you feel loved and cherished or like a booty call?

He treats me very well, but like most men, once they discover what gets you going, they tend to overdo it. So a little talk about that is in order I think
Otherwise, we get alone great, he's very nice, funny, patient, witty etc. etc. He's very attractive and attentive as well.

Originally Posted by oxy-moron

Hi
what you have experienced is the Coolidge effect.

From Wikpedia is the following description-

"In biology and psychology, the term Coolidge effect describes a phenomenon—seen in nearly every mammalian species in which it has been tested—whereby both males and females exhibit continuous high sexual performance given the introduction of new receptive partners".

The original experiments with rats followed this protocol:[4] A male rat would be placed into an enclosed large box with four or five female rats in estrus. He would immediately begin mating with all of the female rats repeatedly until eventually exhausted. Although the females would continue nudging and licking him to continue, he would not respond. However, if a novel female were introduced to the box, he would become alert and find the ability to mate once again with the new female. This phenomenon is not limited to Rattus norvegicus.[5] It is attributed to an increase in dopamine levels and its subsequent effect upon the limbic system.[6]

Human males experience a post-ejaculatory refractory period after sex. They are temporarily incapable of engaging in sex with the same female after ejaculation and require time to recover full sexual function. In popular reference, the Coolidge effect is the well-documented phenomenon that the post-ejaculatory refractory period is reduced or eliminated if a separate female becomes available.[7] This effect is cited by evolutionary biologists as a reason why males are more likely to desire sex with a greater number and variety of partners than females.[7]

While the Coolidge effect is usually seen demonstrated by males—that is, males displaying renewed excitement with a novel female—Lester and Gorzalka developed a model to determine whether or not the Coolidge effect also occurs in females. Their experiment, which used hamsters instead of rats, found that it does occur in lesser degrees in females.[8][9]

This effect has been know for at least a few thousand years- many societies have applied tricks to get around it.
To sum it up they make slow love without orgasm. Sounds a bit of a let down I know but after a few months things start to change in a big way. - Google the Coolidge effect.

That's certainly an interesting reply. I get the coolidge thing, but what i'm getting from it is this: That I am one of those "lesser degree" females that require more than one sexual partner?