Never turned on

**Snuz** · 01-19-2011 02:00 AM

Hey.. Lately I've been wondering what happened to my sex drive.. I'm 22 and I feel like I never get horny.. I can't remember the last time I got that tingly feeling down there or that slight stinging sensation.. I used to get it from things like reading erotic novels.. But it just doesn't seem to work anymore! I was on the pill for about 3 years, and off it for 6 months now. I don't know if that could be related, as I said, I don't really remember when it started stopping..

Anyone know if there could be other causes?

**stressed** · 01-19-2011 05:26 AM

Have you tried to watch porn?

**Sarah4** · 01-19-2011 08:53 AM

Are you feeling stressed or something? that could be the problem..

**WildChild** · 01-19-2011 10:13 AM

Are you on the pill or any meds?

**oxy-moron** · 01-19-2011 06:48 PM

Try fishoil tablets every day.

**wxlover** · 01-20-2011 01:12 AM

Oh, God bless you

**wanton** · 01-20-2011 01:56 AM

You are just a year older than me and I really feel sorry that at a vital age like this you do not get turned on. Porn is not enough and no erotic literature either. All you need to go horny is the man who can get turned on. I think nothing is as efficacious as the magic touch of a young man at your age. You need a man (men) to experiment. I have read in novels that sometime one's first lover fails and the second one does it unstoppably. I do not know your case in detail. But my advice is have someone' s magic touch that works effectively to get you turned on at the end of the day

**wanton** · 01-20-2011 02:28 AM

I am sorry, sister. I had not read your other posts and replied inappropriately. You have a boy and have a long relationship and this is a big issue and it is really hard to arrive at a better clue or decision.

You seem to be inappropriately paired and that is why you do not get stimulated. It happens when one is together for long. Even if we are with a person on an equal footing it is human nature that the other side always becomes green or tempting.

But in your case the boy you are with does not prove a go-getting type. No one can give the idea that exactly fits in your situation.

It is uncertain that you will bump into a guy that can carry on the way you want it

Or meanwhile you cannot keep on deferring your urges or what you expect of man or from life.

You are in a quagmire and anybody will be in your situation.

But anyway your desires are your assets and nothing holds truer than that. To satisfy your desire is your religion. The rest is secondary.

This is just my opinion and am afraid I talked too much

**Snuz** · 01-20-2011 04:08 AM

Originally Posted by stressed

Have you tried to watch porn?

I don't really want to rely on porn to turn me on.. It should come naturally?..

I'm not on any meds.. As I said I quit the pill.
Also, I do take fish oil supplements regularly cause I don't eat much fish.

**stressed** · 01-20-2011 04:36 PM

Originally Posted by Snuz

I don't really want to rely on porn to turn me on.. It should come naturally?..

It's not really to rely on, or use it for that reason. It's more to see, just once, if your body functions when you see sexual images. Maybe you lack imagination, your boyfriend doesn't turn you on, it could be hormones, it could be a phase, anything. But if porn would work you'd at least know that your body "can" do this.

I'm not someone who'd easily recommend porn, but it might just give you some answers in your case.