My first question... is why are you putting so much engery into finding a transexual instead of trying to find a girl to be in a reltionship with?
I mean no harm at all, and if you decide that a transsexual is what you want then I'm glad you've found what makes you happy at such a young age. But in all honesty why arent you trying to be in a relationship with a girl?
chelsy...
Read the first 5 pages of the OP's Thread....
It's okay to find yourself in life, and to be attracted to alternatives, the OP does not believe he is gay, he does not like the look of a female's parts, and he believes he has a Penis fetish......
My concern is that it's the Porn he's been viewing that has created this fantasy...If the fantasy remains years to come and consumes him without watching porn, that's his preference, but if it is as a result of watching porn, and is merely a fantasy and he acts on it, only to establish he really likes girls and falls in love one day and feels horrid for acting on it, it will eat at him for life....
I think as I stated above at 17...you need to be very careful at the choices you make that you can never take back.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
I've read them. I completely understand trying to find yourself... I am in that process now in my life.
I just dont understand why if he doesn't think he's gay, he's not trying to find a girl to have a relationship with... and maybe find if he does or doesn't like the actual act of having vagina and penis sex...
Like he said his feeling about the vagina is purely visual, so i just wonder why not try being with a female first then explore other options if it still "doesn't do it for him"
I seeI just dont understand why if he doesn't think he's gay, he's not trying to find a girl to have a relationship with... and maybe find if he does or doesn't like the actual act of having vagina and penis sex...
Actually that's a good point, given he has never tried but physcologically how do you do that if you find them discusting?
But I do agree, it would be a good step to make...
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
"how do you do that if you find them discusting?"
Also completely understandable... I guess my next thought on that would be if he is attraced enough to the female to start making out or being any kind of intimate he would want to find out what other ways she could please him...
Maybe... Maybe not... but it won't hurt to try
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