Is it good to see somebody making love?

**wanton** · 01-25-2011 03:57 AM

Yesterday I saw somebody making love. My parents invited a newly married couple in our resident. At night when I woke up to I eavesdropped them talking passionate things and the girl moaning. There was barandah I could go and I saw both then stripped naked. The man was stroking her nipples and his penis dipped inside and I enjoyed the scene and suddenly I imagined how it would be like having him to make love to me.

Am I straying? This suddenly cropped up in my mind and I fingered my own ? Is it obscene? Something morally degrading?

**rcoreyus** · 01-25-2011 07:45 AM

Nothing unusual with being aroused by watching people having sex - porn is 50-billion dollar industry, and has been around for at least 2000 years (probably a lot longer). On the other hand, it is rude to spy on people who are having sex - think how you would feel if someone watched you having sex or masturbating.

I don't know how old you are. If you are an adult, then you can find lots of free porn on the internet, posted by people who want to be watched. You can even watch it with your boyfriend if you think he would enjoy that.

**pretzel** · 01-25-2011 08:30 AM

About the only thing I would disagree with is the eavesdropping part of it, but then again, that other couple didn't do anything to be discreet either.

Please rest your fears. You and your bf are experiencing the best part of your lives together. Your both learning about yourselves and each other. This is a natural and wonderful time for both of you. Enjoy it.

**wanton** · 01-25-2011 08:41 AM

Originally Posted by pretzel

About the only thing I would disagree with is the eavesdropping part of it, but then again, that other couple didn't do anything to be discreet either.

Please rest your fears. You and your bf are experiencing the best part of your lives together. Your both learning about yourselves and each other. This is a natural and wonderful time for both of you. Enjoy it.

I am so much curious about everything. This is my special age and time and I just feel like and want to see people doing it amorously.

**pretzel** · 01-25-2011 08:54 AM

Originally Posted by wanton

I am so much curious about everything. This is my special age and time and I just feel like and want to see people doing it amorously.

My dear, from the time you've joined it is obvious that your curiousity and willingness to want to be a wonderful lover is something that is refreshing.

I think that you're trying to be a little too much too soon. Let yourself relax and let both of you grow into the loving couple that you are. I definately understand you wanting to see how other couples make love for your own ideas. But what I would hate to see is that over the next year as you continue your journey that you're not later talking about how he won't do this or that. He needs to grow into his own sexual maturity just as you need to do with yours.

**wanton** · 01-25-2011 08:58 AM

Originally Posted by pretzel

My dear, from the time you've joined it is obvious that your curiousity and willingness to want to be a wonderful lover is something that is refreshing.

I think that you're trying to be a little too much too soon. Let yourself relax and let both of you grow into the loving couple that you are. I definately understand you wanting to see how other couples make love for your own ideas. But what I would hate to see is that over the next year as you continue your journey that you're not later talking about how he won't do this or that. He needs to grow into his own sexual maturity just as you need to do with yours.

Full of wisdom.

You seem to be parenting me with your excellent advices, sister

**pretzel** · 01-25-2011 09:03 AM

Originally Posted by wanton

Full of wisdom.

You seem to be parenting me with your excellent advices, sister

Well, considering I've raised two adult children (btw, I'm their father

) who are more than likely in your own age range, these are things I'd say to them.

**ALPHA_MALE** · 01-25-2011 05:29 PM

Originally Posted by wanton

Yesterday I saw somebody making love. My parents invited a newly married couple in our resident. At night when I woke up to I eavesdropped them talking passionate things and the girl moaning. There was barandah I could go and I saw both then stripped naked. The man was stroking her nipples and his penis dipped inside and I enjoyed the scene and suddenly I imagined how it would be like having him to make love to me.

Am I straying? This suddenly cropped up in my mind and I fingered my own ? Is it obscene? Something morally degrading?

Yes to all. Eavesdropping is bad and .... eeeyeeaaaaahhh......

**wanton** · 01-25-2011 08:07 PM

Originally Posted by pretzel

Well, considering I've raised two adult children (btw, I'm their father

) who are more than likely in your own age range, these are things I'd say to them.

It is really nice to have someone who raise children in my age range and you have a sea of experiences. I am indefensible and likely to astray. I am on the edge and can fall off anytime. Sex is a dangerous drive and I am not in control of myself and any young handsome man gets me into a fever and you sound like a father-figure, if you do not mind, in whom I find a great councilor who can help me build morals in life