Why most women want to change theit partners

**wanton** · 01-25-2011 08:54 AM

People are really amazing creatures. I just want to express everything else and nowhere I can discuss so daringly since now I am under my fake name and nobody can know who I am

I think few are satisfied with their firsts and in fact they want new dishes.

I am a new lover and my likes and devours everything of me yet I do not stop fantasizing something new always.

Even so early I want to see another person's . Is it bad?

**rcoreyus** · 01-25-2011 01:17 PM

Some people are never happy in a relationship with a single person - this isn't a character flaw, but just the way they are. They find various solutions. They can date multiple people - letting everyone know the situation. Some people are happy with that sort of life. They can have poly-amorous relationships, where they love multiple people at the same time - again some people are happy.

My opinion is that as long as no one is being deceived, either is fine.

**wanton** · 01-25-2011 08:14 PM

Originally Posted by rcoreyus

Some people are never happy in a relationship with a single person - this isn't a character flaw, but just the way they are. They find various solutions. They can date multiple people - letting everyone know the situation. Some people are happy with that sort of life. They can have poly-amorous relationships, where they love multiple people at the same time - again some people are happy.

My opinion is that as long as no one is being deceived, either is fine.

I find your ideas brimful of wisdom, I find you a great adviser, sis. I love you and hug so deeply.

**waya** · 01-25-2011 10:27 PM

It's natural to be curious about sex with different people when you're new to it all. Just don't let curiosity overcome good sense or cause you to hurt other people.

**rcoreyus** · 01-26-2011 08:32 AM

Um sorry, I'm also a guy. Quite a lot of us on this board. (The hug would be nice, but I'm married....... ;-) ).

Originally Posted by wanton

I find your ideas brimful of wisdom, I find you a great adviser, sis. I love you and hug so deeply.

**wanton** · 01-28-2011 08:45 AM

Originally Posted by rcoreyus

Um sorry, I'm also a guy. Quite a lot of us on this board. (The hug would be nice, but I'm married....... ;-) ).

Oh! you are a guy. This is wonderful to talk with you. And of course I can learn more about romance from the guys' viewpoints too. This will be fantastic experience. I never stop fantasizing learning something new when it comes to romance. I will have to learn more from guys than from girls. I learned enough from girls. I am now tempted into guys' world

**LilahX** · 01-29-2011 05:14 AM

Ok, you're married but that doesn't automatiacally make you not attracted to other women. Personally I think it's perfectly normal to be interested in what it would be like with someone else, especially if you didn't have much variety before you got married.

How you deal with this desire is up to you. You can obviously fantasise about others (and don't tnhnk people don't do that during sex with the person they love because they DO). You could even bring it into your sex life, depending on how open minded your wife is. Ask her whther she'd fantasise about anyone else, make her feel comfortable about admitting if she does. You don't have to specific about who you fantasise about (if it is anyone in particular). it can be a sexy game to imagine you're having adventures with other people. Take it slow and easy. If she's not open to this sort of fantasising then there's not much you can do other than keep it to yourself unfortunately.

But don't feel you're unusual in your desire, because you're not.

**wanton** · 01-30-2011 05:31 AM

Originally Posted by LilahX

Ok, you're married but that doesn't automatiacally make you not attracted to other women. Personally I think it's perfectly normal to be interested in what it would be like with someone else, especially if you didn't have much variety before you got married.

How you deal with this desire is up to you. You can obviously fantasise about others (and don't tnhnk people don't do that during sex with the person they love because they DO). You could even bring it into your sex life, depending on how open minded your wife is. Ask her whther she'd fantasise about anyone else, make her feel comfortable about admitting if she does. You don't have to specific about who you fantasise about (if it is anyone in particular). it can be a sexy game to imagine you're having adventures with other people. Take it slow and easy. If she's not open to this sort of fantasising then there's not much you can do other than keep it to yourself unfortunately.

But don't feel you're unusual in your desire, because you're not.

How sweet you are my sister. I always fantasize it. when my guy has it deeper and deeper penetratingly I just feel I have someone next to him fondling my boobs. I have seen it in porn movies. I have seen plenty of porn and love an orgy and feel I am there too with so many males and females doing it in a group.

I seem a troll, don't I? Talking nonsense. I have not had any variety. Twenty is a very indefensible age and I have plenty of boy friends and I am a partying woman too. But no other males have kissed me than my boy since I always empathize with him. Several handsome boys proposed me to have sex with them when I had been all alone with them. I was on a trip to a distant city on business with my colleague and we shared a hotel and he wanted to share bed too but I refused though all night I was thinking about how it would be to see a pendulum between his two legs.

But I am a twenty first century woman and I can do anything to please myself.

I just want to hear how you will respond to my vulnerable mind

**jns** · 01-30-2011 08:12 AM

Originally Posted by wanton

How sweet you are my sister. I always fantasize it. when my guy has it deeper and deeper penetratingly I just feel I have someone next to him fondling my boobs. I have seen it in porn movies. I have seen plenty of porn and love an orgy and feel I am there too with so many males and females doing it in a group.

I seem a troll, don't I? Talking nonsense. I have not had any variety. Twenty is a very indefensible age and I have plenty of boy friends and I am a partying woman too. But no other males have kissed me than my boy since I always empathize with him. Several handsome boys proposed me to have sex with them when I had been all alone with them. I was on a trip to a distant city on business with my colleague and we shared a hotel and he wanted to share bed too but I refused though all night I was thinking about how it would be to see a pendulum between his two legs.

But I am a twenty first century woman and I can do anything to please myself.

I just want to hear how you will respond to my vulnerable mind

What you talk about is the way many guys view relationships, at least at sometime in their lives. The trouble is, is that most people are territorial, so they will not be happy with a person of such an urge. And others will end up labeling you.

I hope you are using protection against disease and unwanted pregnancy.

**wanton** · 02-02-2011 03:02 AM

I am talking about human nature and in fact we never can stop fancying anything, to be brutally honest. In my consciousness, since my consciousness is formed of my social and ethical values and of what my parents and some of the venerated told me about. But they are not strong and I can tread on a not to be trodden zone in my fantasy if not in reality.

I often think how the other guy will perform on me. We crave for a different food, don’t we? We want to wear a different dress on different occasions and when it comes to sex we may crave for a different man secretly and I do not think I am all alone with this fantasy. With that said I never mean I will wander off morally to desert my fiancé. I cannot do this because I love him and his love binds on me and bounds me to him only. But I am an intellectual and cannot resist the temptation of discussing it