Thread: Wife's discomfort with doggie style

Hi
You can try doggie position on your side. Lying down. Similar to spooning. This takes the stress off from her having to support her weight as well as some of the potential embarrassment. Also try a caressing massage of her upper legs and bottom( use massage butter/oil) while you are doing it.

Good luck

If it doesnt actually hurt her, which could very well be, she might just resent that it is the only position you can get off in sometimes. It might be making her feel inadequate or insecure. Maybe if you explain to her that the angle increases the stimulation you receive on the bottom of the head of your penis, the frenulum, that it helps you get the extra sensation you sometimes need, she wont see it as her inadequacies.