Thread: How to initiate break up sex

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

I don't think you really are after break up sex at all.

I think you are after 1) leaving her with the touch, the thought, the intimacy one last time....that will remain on her mind throughout this, instead of just walking out the door and her last memory is of say, a simple word, bye.

If that is the case, tell her you would like a date, take her to dinner, buy her a dress to wear, give her a rose, talk at the table over wine only of past fun, happy things that happened, things that made you laugh and don't talk about the future.. Talk about the hobbies your going to start, but don't talk about the negatives, or past..... Kiss her and look into her eyes at the end of the night and tell her, she has been the most beautifulest person / journey in your life...Ask her, " I want to spend this last night with you " ..... and we can take our break and re-discover and grow..If she says yes? Then you can fullfill your emptiness of this "break-up" as much as she can...

CW

Wow... you not only explained my mind in a way that I couldn't put it in several paragraphs of several posts, but your insight into the kind of ending I think we deserve sounds absolutely perfect; as if it were hidden away in my mind the whole time and you plucked it out and showed it to me. Even if I don't go so far as to propose we spend one last night together due to the responses I'm getting from the other members, the rest stands on it's own so strongly that I know it is how I want us to remember each other. I'm completely taken aback. Thank you so much for understanding.