My husband has a small penis

**PureVirgin** · 02-03-2011 07:20 PM

I'm curious, did you know it was small before you married him?

**Barefoot** · 02-03-2011 11:49 PM

saying its a good size is a nice way of saying it's small.

Why the does it matter? Maybe they had sex before...maybe they didn't. Either way this is the penis she's got for the foreseeable future.

there are plenty of positions that might be able to help....but seriously for me there is such a thing as too small....and tehre is such a thing as too big

**wanton** · 02-04-2011 01:16 AM

In fact she might have made a comparison between her present husband and her ex. In fact no penises are that small that can not strike women. It is the art of making love. And the skills of both partners.

I always try to romanticize my wife and open get him watch porn. I like to talk dirtily, sexually, obscenely, vulgarly though I may not sound decent to some conservative women. I often read erotic lines to him and show some nude pictures or some people making love

**GoddessOfLove** · 02-04-2011 09:39 AM

Originally Posted by wanton

In fact she might have made a comparison between her present husband and her ex. In fact no penises are that small that can not strike women. It is the art of making love. And the skills of both partners.

From what I've read you just had sex for the first time very recently right? I'm sorry but you are wrong about this. Penises can be so small that they cannot get a woman off. I've had one that was the size of a pinky finger and it was quite a mess trying to have sex with it.

**Scarletkitty** · 02-04-2011 10:01 AM

I'm going to have to agree with Goddess on this one.

Yes, there ARE other things that guys with small penises can do to please their partner, however, they don't involve using that small penis. Which leaves the experience, well... let's just say lacking. IMHO it would best be described as settling...

**WildChild** · 02-04-2011 10:19 AM

Originally Posted by Barefoot

saying its a good size is a nice way of saying it's small.

Not necessarily. I would say that most of my lovers have been a "good" size. If it works for me, its a good size. LOL.
I am largely responsible for my own orgasm. I recognize that how a man treats me affects my response, I choose to let him into my life and my body - or not. If I cannot respond well to how he approaches me, touches or engages in sexual activity, I have to either communicate what I need to be responsive to him or I accept a less than optimal situation. That is my choice.

A man's penis can be a wonderful and even magical thing but it isn't a magic wand, which if it is just the exact right size, will bring a guarantee of orgasm for his sexual partner. Its much more complex than that. Yes, there are men who have penises that are at either extreme for size and that can make sexual satisfaction with them, from penetrative sex, pretty much a non starter. That doesn't mean they can't pleasure their partner by other means. It is up to the woman to learn and explore what works for her and to communicate and guide toward that. REAL men, men worth having in your life, understand that a pleasured woman, will (some notable exceptions) make their lives infinitely more joyful and pleasurable.

**wanton** · 02-04-2011 10:48 AM

Originally Posted by GoddessOfLove

From what I've read you just had sex for the first time very recently right? I'm sorry but you are wrong about this. Penises can be so small that they cannot get a woman off. I've had one that was the size of a pinky finger and it was quite a mess trying to have sex with it.

It is interesting to learn all that. Today we live in a world of science and I think one can go through a surgery to fatten or lengthen the size of the penis, the way women can fatten their breasts. Poor fellow, how can he restrain himself when his girl is craving.

**GoddessOfLove** · 02-04-2011 10:51 AM

Well they've had those penis pumps like Austin Powers had for a long time and I don't think they do anything. Honestly I don't think there is a cure for small penis. It's sad actually. I'm not talking about 5 inches versus 7 inches. I'm talking like so small it doesn't even seem like it's possible for one to be that small. And it does affect your ability to enjoy sex.

**Barefoot** · 02-04-2011 10:57 AM

ummm...Malrats quote? And honestly if I say that to a guy I'm being nice. I don't tell them that because the last thing I want to do is give them a complex about it.

Goddess I don't know if the pumps work...but there are always penis extenders...or there's some kind of ring thing I've seen that adds girth...or ....just get a fantastic toy and take care of it later if need be.

you could tell him it's small...I don't think that would be constructive though.

seriously...I've seen a couple that were all of 3 inches....I really wanted to say what the am I supposed to do with that? Laugh when it tickles? Can we just skip right to the cigarette.....