One of my partners was like that and it was very nicely timed and enjoyed. She came in one afternoon, proceeded to unzip my pants and enjoy me orally. Another instance occurred in college when a date brought herself up to my face (to great surprise) for oral sex. These are very hot memories from my past. It can happen too much (doesn't that sound crazy?) but that hasn't been the case in my lifetime.
"In India most women are taken as commodities and this is not a dual act and men want it and women are subservient things. Women get tired always and they go to bed very late and men just enter the room and gratify his urges without talking about anything."
In my personal opinion, I think Indian culture is very judgmental and restrictive about female sexuality. If a woman initiates sex or is aggressive, she's considered a "bad Indian woman", unworthy of marriage, or shaming the family. Honestly, I think it's the Indian men responsible for conditioning other Indian women to feel this way. This doesn't apply to everyone, but just my observation. To avoid put downs and stigma, a lot of Indian women would behave submissive than show their true sexual feelings.
It's interesting to compare my Indian ex with my European boyfriend. My Indian ex said that women who initiate sex are desperate and deviant, but I find my European boyfriend to be more appreciative and understanding about a woman's sexual urges. It's interesting to note that the Indian women I've known are more openly sexual with non-Indian men, but act prudish with Indian men.
PaneraBread, good to see you posting again. I think Indian women also help with the conditioning of Indian women. Indian women may be more prudish around Indian men due to not wanting rumors to spread that are unflattering when compared to traditional roles.Originally Posted by PaneraBread
I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
Patrick Henry
Yes, girls can be just as guilty.
You are so much true and that is what is happening here and we are helpless and we will have to be very shrewd when it comes to dealing with males. They are dominating and can have extra martial affairs and enjoy social acceptance and recognition and but we are restricted and our parents always stuff our minds with the moral stuffs and too many dos and don'ts. I am a rebel and do not want to live by. That promoted me to be here with the liberals of the west. You all are more fortunate than us though the divorce rate is much lower in India. Our social values are framed in such a way that we confine our grievances within our mental chambers only and now through this wonderful forum I am exiting it.
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