Thread: Question about lube..Who needs it and who doesn't?

Having only ever had sex with one women, my wife of thirteen years, I am curious to no other peoples experience regarding lube. With the exception of a handfull of times, we have always needed lube for sex. I would like to think its because I"m so big down there. HA HA. but I don't think that is the case. Although I am not circumcised, so I think that is one reason why I like to use lube. I am curious to know if this is normal, so my questions is for both they guys and the girls, do you need lube for sex? Do you never need lube for sex? or does it vary? Thanks for your replys.

There are times when first initiated after foreplay, lube is not needed for us, but the longer it goes on the more sensative she seems to get.
Almost all the time we end up breaking out one of the many lubes we like... and I stress "LIKE".

Not really because we "need" to, but rather because it just makes it all that more enjoyable and pleasurable.
For us it's always better when well lubed...

Hope this helps.

I really don't need lube if I get enough foreplay... I get pretty wet when I'm aroused.

In my personal experiences lube has never been needed. There were times, like when I was on BC, that it probably should have been used and have been greatly appreciated. A lot depends on what a person likes, do they like the thought of needing or wanting to have to use lube in order to have sex? For some it might feel as if they are not "normal" if they or their partner do not get wet enough.

I've never required lube, I usually orgasm through foreplay so when hes ready to go in I'm wet and waiting.

Only for anal, and we usually use Jergens Natural Glow Foaming Moisturizer. I don't like the traditional lubes. Lotion feels more natural to me.

If you're young or you're superwoman you might be able to get away without using any lube. Don't ever assume you won't need it, don't think badly of needing it and for heavens sake don't hesitate to use it. Lube is good. Lube is your friend. Use twice or three times as much lube as you think you need. Add more as needed. (You'd think I sell lube or something, but I don't!)

Where do I purchase lube? Can I get it in the automotive aisle?

It all depends on the woman. Her age has alot to do with it. Foreplay and/or oral is a great way to start things. Another good idea, tell her to have a glass of red wine before. It loosens blood vessels and allows muscles to relax.

Originally Posted by BambiTurburble

Where do I purchase lube? Can I get it in the automotive aisle?

I wouldn't suggest getting lube in the automotive aisle. That stuff is just not really gonna do the trick. Now you can do a lot of other really fun things with stuff from that aisle....I mean there are hoses...and clamps...the possibilities are endless!!!!