Thread: Where does it come from and what's normal?

Possibly Skene's, possibly Bartholin's, possibly both. Masters and Johnson did not specifically study this, and there are no controlled studies on the subject. If you can have a "female ejaculation", it would be most interesting to study the phenomenon and determine the reflex arc, the glandular source of the fluid, and why some can and some cannot achieve this form of orgasm. If the Bartholin's glands are involved, it would be helpful for women to know how to induce this form of orgasm to help prevent Bartholin's abcesses, a very painful and reasonably common surgical problem. Certainly, if a definitive answer to this question could be reproducibly proven, it would make a nice write-up in the green journal(Gynecology). We would need funding and volunteers. All volunteers would need to firmly believe that they are capable of female ejaculation.

Originally Posted by DrJ

Possibly Skene's, possibly Bartholin's, possibly both. Masters and Johnson did not specifically study this, and there are no controlled studies on the subject. If you can have a "female ejaculation", it would be most interesting to study the phenomenon and determine the reflex arc, the glandular source of the fluid, and why some can and some cannot achieve this form of orgasm. If the Bartholin's glands are involved, it would be helpful for women to know how to induce this form of orgasm to help prevent Bartholin's abcesses, a very painful and reasonably common surgical problem. Certainly, if a definitive answer to this question could be reproducibly proven, it would make a nice write-up in the green journal(Gynecology). We would need funding and volunteers. All volunteers would need to firmly believe that they are capable of female ejaculation.

What I am is a joke of modern science. I ejaculate but only at the hands of my lover. I fill his mouth with my love and he can just put his arms around me and I ejaculate. This wonderful happening has changed me as a woman. I am insatiable with my husband. I am a woman of my age that needs no lubrication. Anytime he touches me I lubricate. I adore him. The most interesting part of this whole thing is that I no longer have the female smell. I smell sweet. It has changed all of who I am as a woman and I love it. I get weak after this happens. He drives me wild and I believe I fly nearer to heaven here on earth than many women have yet achieved.

Before this really let loose some things happened that were so interesting but I live in a place of happiness with no wants in life...Would I volunteer....No way....All the money in the world could not pull me out...I would never want to change any part of me that would change a part of us....I guess this is just who I am....

Originally Posted by DrJ

Masters and Johnson did not specifically study this, and there are no controlled studies on the subject.

Just my opinion and some may think it is a feministic opinion - This is a man's world and where sex is concerned it's no different. Look at all the studies/medications for ED. There haven't been many because I believe no one cares enough about it to study it .......... as long as the man is satisfied everything is ok.

Yeah I know I may get bashed for this idea but to me it does make some sense to me anyway.

Originally Posted by Fallen1

Just my opinion and some may think it is a feministic opinion - This is a man's world and where sex is concerned it's no different. Look at all the studies/medications for ED. There haven't been many because I believe no one cares enough about it to study it .......... as long as the man is satisfied everything is ok.

Yeah I know I may get bashed for this idea but to me it does make some sense to me anyway.

EDIT: No one cares meaning as far as the majority of the scientific population is concerned.

Originally Posted by Fallen1

Just my opinion and some may think it is a feministic opinion - This is a man's world and where sex is concerned it's no different. Look at all the studies/medications for ED. There haven't been many because I believe no one cares enough about it to study it .......... as long as the man is satisfied everything is ok.

Yeah I know I may get bashed for this idea but to me it does make some sense to me anyway.

Fallen1: You are so right on what you have said. First I want to apologize for repeating myself on my above post. I just plain forgot what I had written earlier. My problem is I am so busy that sometimes I neglect going back and reading what I said earlier. I will try and do this from now on.

What has happened to me can happen to many women but are we being ignored? I believe science knows that a woman could get rid of the smell that is so irritating to so many of us. I believe it has something to do with the glands that emit the ejaculate. With this happening came the end of anymore yeast infections I had. BUT what if they found the simple cure for this...think of all the big business it would kill. All the companies that put out the anti-odor products and all the yeast infections that this could be tied into. I believe they go together..

I believe all women deserve more in life then we get. Science is just not in our favor...............Big bucks rules.........

Well, I recently heard that a Viagra-type drug is soon to be on the market for us ladies... woo hoo!

I took Viagra once with my hubby and I could have gone all night long. I didn't feel super horny, like I thought I would, but my whole body just felt different, and I could have just kept having sex without stopping. Everything felt amazing. And that was just on half a pill.

Originally Posted by Fallen1

Just my opinion and some may think it is a feministic opinion - This is a man's world and where sex is concerned it's no different. Look at all the studies/medications for ED. There haven't been many because I believe no one cares enough about it to study it .......... as long as the man is satisfied everything is ok.

Yeah I know I may get bashed for this idea but to me it does make some sense to me anyway.

Originally Posted by CarolineWH

I believe science knows that a woman could get rid of the smell that is so irritating to so many of us... think of all the big business it would kill. All the companies that put out the anti-odor products and all the yeast infections that this could be tied into. I believe they go together..

I believe all women deserve more in life then we get. Science is just not in our favor...............Big bucks rules.........

Yeah, we should stop looking for a cure to cancer and other terminal diseases to find out about less important things... And as for the big-business thing, that applies to everything, when you have private pharmaceutical companies, a treatment makes more money than a cure.
Scientific advance might be slightly leant towards masculinity, but all I'd suggest is to get a few more female scientists out there! It's only natural that people would look at things that concern them directly, and that they know about.

Anyway, to render all of that completely moot, women have a higher life expectancy than men, so things can't be that wrong :P.

Originally Posted by LadyLane

Well, I recently heard that a Viagra-type drug is soon to be on the market for us ladies... woo hoo!

I took Viagra once with my hubby and I could have gone all night long. I didn't feel super horny, like I thought I would, but my whole body just felt different, and I could have just kept having sex without stopping. Everything felt amazing. And that was just on half a pill.

I have had women write me that they have taken one half of their husband's Viagra tablet and had the same result. I think it is wonderful. If a woman needs that head's start to heat up sexually, it is now there for us. I, too, hear that Viagra has a wonderful product coming out and this should take care of the sexual response of a woman.

For a woman to truly get the charge out of sex that she needs, she has got to want it. Then she truly opens up...This probably is the product that will do it....

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

Yeah, we should stop looking for a cure to cancer and other terminal diseases to find out about less important things...

Where in the wording of my post did you come up with me hinting at such?

The majority of money spent on sexual issues seems to be directed towards the male gender. That's where my comments came from.

I see sooo many commercials advertising viagra etc., how many millions of dollars are/have been spent on this issue. Yes I do understand there are cases of ED that are related to cancer, high blood pressure problems etc, so that is disease/sickness related but as far as I know ED is a only a side affect of the possible medical problem, curing ED does not cure the ailment.

Originally Posted by Fallen1

I see sooo many commercials advertising viagra etc., how many millions of dollars are/have been spent on this issue. Yes I do understand there are cases of ED that are related to cancer, high blood pressure problems etc, so that is disease/sickness related but as far as I know ED is a only a side affect of the possible medical problem, curing ED does not cure the ailment.

So yes anon as you well stated -

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

Yeah, we should stop looking for a cure to cancer and other terminal diseases to find out about less important things...