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Old 05-29-2006, 02:17 PM   #1
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Hi, I'm new here and I hope someone can give me some advice. I'm 41 and have been married x 14 years. My husband and I have a very loving relationship and 3 children, 13,12,11. We usually have a satisfying sex life even though we are both busy. The problem is I cant stand having my breasts touched. This is so abnormal! My husband trys to be understanding,but i know it bothers him. It is the only part of my body that I have this problem with. I'm wondering if it's psychological. I've tried so hard to over come this, but I cant.Has any one else ever had this problem? Any advice would be great!
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Interesting... I went through the same thing several years ago. I was on birth control which changed my hormone levels. I think that my hormone levels played a big part in it. I think that part of me just didn't want to really be having sex. Also, it can be purely psychological. You are just not associating your breasts with pleasure. Could it be the certain way he touches them? I mean, would it help if he were more gentle or aggressive? If not, then maybe you should try enjoying your breasts by yourself while masturbating. Now I know, to some people that might sound strange, but you have to love your body if you truly want to enjoy sex. Think about sexually positive things and try to associate them with your breasts. Also, if you do not think that your breasts are attractive, that can play a HUGE part in it.

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Old 06-20-2006, 02:02 PM   #3
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I've Experienced The Aame Problem In Past And Currently. My Problem Started After I Baby Breast Feed My Now Almost 3 Year Old Child. This Is Still A Problem For Me, And What Bothers Me Is That This Was My Arousal Point. I Do Think For My Self Many Years After The Fact That Its Mental.

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Hi, I'm new here and I hope someone can give me some advice. I'm 41 and have been married x 14 years. My husband and I have a very loving relationship and 3 children, 13,12,11. We usually have a satisfying sex life even though we are both busy. The problem is I cant stand having my breasts touched. This is so abnormal! My husband trys to be understanding,but i know it bothers him. It is the only part of my body that I have this problem with. I'm wondering if it's psychological. I've tried so hard to over come this, but I cant.Has any one else ever had this problem? Any advice would be great!
hi, i have the exact same problem... soo bad, that our marraige is failing, we have major fights, even the cops get called on some occasions. I cringe when he touches my breasts.. want to literally throw up.. when i try to let him for his pleasure, i can only take a few seconds, then sometimes i scream, and run, like im a victim of rape or something, i get scared, and want to die.. have you looked anywhere else for answers? if so let me know.. your the first person i came to when i searched for info on the prob.. pls help
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