Thread: Ladies...Can you recommend a good vibrator?

It depends what you want from it. I'm guessing that in saying "real vibrator" you mean you want penetration. A Magic Wand is certainly, at least by my lights, a real vibrator. I tried my roommate's once, years ago, and it was way too powerful for me, even when I used it over my clothes. I've never been much for penetration during masturbation myself, so I can't help you with a recommendation on that front. But I do have a great little vibrator that my husband gave me last year that I love -- a Lelo Nea. It's shaped like a kidney bean, and nestles right up against your clit. It's just right for me. One way I like to use it is to tuck it into my panties on the lowest speed while I'm watching a movie or reading, buzzing gently along and gradually getting more and more aroused. After a while, the movie or the book is forgotten, and I shift into higher gear, one orgasm after another. It's especially good if you like to masturbate face down, humping against the bed -- the way I did as a girl, and still like to do occasionally now.

I use an electric toothbrush..

Be careful: using a vibrator regularly, especially a strong one can desensitize you to the point where you need one to orgasm.

A man's two cents....

Pocket Rocket

Compact, dependable, easily portable, quite versatile, not too expensive.

I think it's more of a personal preferance.
All my friends told me they loved the rabbit style vibrator. I personally did not.
I like the We-Vibe or a pocket rocket.

Lots of great ideas...thanks everyone.

I certainly wouldn't want to find one that would replace the real thing but I'm thinking in the meantime while I am a single lady, it's better to masturbate than to go out looking for brief encounters...

Getting desensitized is a definite concern. Has that happened to any of you and if so, do you think there is a way to reverse it?

My wife got desensitised. She used to often orgasm from intercourse and almost always from oral, no only does with the vibrator.