help / Husband stops too soon

**meonlyme** · 02-08-2011 07:27 AM

I am married and sexually active for 3 months now. He is way too sensitive down there, never allows me to touch or taste. While the intercourse is on he stops very early(say less than 5 mins) and never reached his climax within me. It makes me feel very insecure. He is great at discussing and foreplay but when it comes to action he always chooses not do it. He says I am too attractive for him. How do I make him play longer and reach climax.

**WildChild** · 02-08-2011 07:42 AM

How soon is he ready to go again?
Men almost always last longer the second or third time around. Using a condom should slow him down too. Remember ladies cum first. "You are too attractive", is a great excuse the first couple times but wears thin fast.

Get him to do kegels to maintain better erectile control. To locate the muscles he needs to stop urination in mid stream - it takes the PCs to do that. Then he needs to start contracting and releasing those muscles to strengthen them. He can start with sets of 30 reps, 2 second hold, 2 second release and should work up to 10 second or longer holds. At least 3 sets of reps a couple times a day. If he is doing them right his testicles will move a little with each contraction. Strong pubococcygeus muscles will give him a stronger erection and more ejaculatory control. As they age many men do develop urinary incontinence and this will help prevent that as well.

**evaone** · 02-08-2011 08:23 PM

Maybe he is just easy to get tired. is he fat? why don't you try to consult a doctor and ask for a supplement for longer stamina when having sex. just a suggestion. good luck