Ladies another Penis Question i know :(

**rippemanewone** · 02-13-2011 02:09 AM

Im a 21 year old amateur bodybuilder. About 5'11 210lbs 6% bf, im decent shape i would say. But i just have this HORRIBLE OCD about my penis.

My fiance thinks my penis is "perfect and beautiful" (whatever the beautiful part means lol). I measure at a little bit over 7 inches and about 5 1/2 around. I just cant get over the insecurity and it makes me feel like i need to cheat on her to get other opinions from different women.. Of course id NEVER go through with it, i love her too much, were high school sweethearts

. But i just have that dumb urge to you know?

She is very petite 4'9 100lbs so cute lol. And she says it always hurts her but like i only feel the reason I personally feel big to her is because shes so small herself. Like would a taller woman feel the same? See idk.. Just feeling insecure thats all.

**Thomas Hepburn** · 02-13-2011 04:53 AM

If your partner thinks, and says, that your penis is perfect then thank your lucky stars ! Most women either accept what we have or say they are ugly. You are very lucky. It seems though like this hides other insecurities you have about your own body? Why do you need further re-assurance?

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-13-2011 08:35 AM

Um... does it really matter to you if a tall woman would feel the same? What if she wasn't sure she was good at giving you bj's and despite how much you tell her that you love what she does... she wondered if an older man would think she was as good... WHYYY should it matter if you love her and only want to be with her... why do you care if your penis would be adequate to other women? There is more than size, much more... that makes a sexual experience good for a woman...if you think youre size alone determains whether or not you could satisfy someone... you'd be very wrong in that line of thinking.

You sound like you have a good girl that loves you... and you may run her off in search of having the worlds most wonderful penis... I'm not trying to be harsh but how many pats on the back would it take for you to finally feel like you have an adequate penis? How many women would have to tell you? So you have sex with a tall woman, would you say hmmm.. but shes from the US I wonder if french women would find my penis adequate and go have sex with a french woman to see if it is... then but thats just one french woman... what about the rest of them? Do you see what I am saying? I hope that you do.

**ItsASecret** · 02-13-2011 09:27 AM

I measure at a little bit over 7 inches and about 5 1/2 around. I just cant get over the insecurity and it makes me feel like i need to cheat on her to get other opinions from different women..

You are 21, you took high school math you have been exposed to a thing called statistics. So lets incorporate statistics into this. Size falls into a bell curve, the mean value (average) is roughly 6 inches-give or take maybe .5 of an inch. Being above 6 means you are above average, ABOVE AVERAGE. One cannot get around statistics, statistics are concrete if you are above the average, whatever value that may be, then you are above the average there is no changing that. Woman X,Y,Z will say "yeah your bigger"...okay cool confirmation of an already sound principle of statistics. If a girl thinks above average is below average then she is not exactly a prime person to ask for judgment calls. Plain and simple you are above average. My bf is 7.5 inches, I am 5 foot. It hurts sometimes. He is above average because I know he is larger, he knows 7.5 is larger than average. There is no real reason to go looking for a new lady to have her stare at your package. You have a perfectly fine one which your gf enjoys. Enjoy that fact.

**jns** · 02-13-2011 09:37 AM

Originally Posted by Thomas Hepburn

Most women either accept what we have or say they are ugly. You are very lucky.

Most women may say that about a penis they don't care about, but it is a different thing for one they get pleasure from. Have you never had a woman in love with your penis as well as in love with you? Guys do this a lot with women, loving certain parts as well as the woman as a whole.

**rippemanewone** · 02-13-2011 10:08 AM

I understand, thank you ladies. I mean our sex life is GREAT, we do it all the time and it seems like she cant get enough of me (she always wants sex).

I just worry thats all. Im sorry if i annoyed you ladies.

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-13-2011 01:00 PM

Its not that you annoyed me, its just always a bit tragic when guys think that their penis size is what defines 'good sex' so whether they have a big one and think all they have to do is show up and they are awesome... or they have a smaller one and think they will never be a good lover because of it -- neither of those things can be further from the truth.

So its like guys beat themselves up wondering if they are 'big enough' ... when thats not what will GET nor KEEP a woman, so its pretty irrelevent.

**Tool** · 02-13-2011 01:36 PM

My Penis size is actually below average, I have asked my Wife about it before and she has said that she thinks im small. But we still have amazing sex and she really enjoys it. Its more about how you use what you got.

**jns** · 02-13-2011 01:44 PM

Originally Posted by Tool

My Penis size is actually below average, I have asked my Wife about it before and she has said that she thinks im small. But we still have amazing sex and she really enjoys it. Its more about how you use what you got.

Exactly! Remember, you've got a lot more than your sex organs.

**rippemanewone** · 02-13-2011 04:05 PM

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

Its not that you annoyed me, its just always a bit tragic when guys think that their penis size is what defines 'good sex' so whether they have a big one and think all they have to do is show up and they are awesome... or they have a smaller one and think they will never be a good lover because of it -- neither of those things can be further from the truth.

So its like guys beat themselves up wondering if they are 'big enough' ... when thats not what will GET nor KEEP a woman, so its pretty irrelevent.

Well you know how society is these days, now im not saying ALL women so dont misinterpret that but, alot of women have kind of, how could i say, put us men in that situation to make us feel a little uncomfortable? If that makes any sense, women to gloat about size alot, so maybe thats why we feel this way. HOWEVER not all women are like this, just some, thought id clarify :P.

You guys have been really helpful, puts me a little more at ease with myself.