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Somehow (in my opinion) they have that inner "sensuality" which makes the massage more enjoyable, whilst still addings strength where needed....
Honestly?
Somehow (in my opinion) they have that inner "sensuality" which makes the massage more enjoyable, whilst still addings strength where needed....
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
I wouldn't want to be touched intimately by a man because I was abused by one as a child. To me, a woman's hands are what nature crreated to caress and relax my body in all ways. Yes, you certainly find it very difficult to hide an erection if you are on a Nudist Beach ! But, like I said in another thread, being nude is natural as long as you behave in a natural manner. And that means, if you get a boner, that you don't go waving it in front of the ladies on the beach. You behave discreetly and try not to offend at all times. That goes for a man's behaviour when he's getting a massage from a woman. I have had several massages in the last few months. The one lady massaged my buttocks while I was stark naked face down ( I had a towel to cover my front bits when flip side up) She and I behaved properly at all times. Anything else than that would have been gross!
Thomas, you can really get a massage nude without a sheet covering your butt? I thought you had to cover those areas for massages.
Depends on state lawsOriginally Posted by Cheese5318
No, not neccesarily. And remember, we don't come under any state laws here. The Lady who did the massage is a qualified Aromatherapy Masseusse and also does Ladies waxing etc. She is very professional. She is quite ok with me naked lying on my front. She knows I have no problem with nudity but she prefers I change when she's out of the room and she prefers to keep the towel over my front groin area when I'm on my back. I understand this. A lot of women are not comfortable with seeing men's bits!
She massages my buttocks because Iplay sport that involves heavy use of these muscles. Like I said, both she and I behave properly at all times. Nudity, wherever or whenever it is practiced is only natural if you behave properly.
I've had nude massages of my entire body, aside from genitals. Having discussed it with maggage therapists, the covering has more to do with not crossing people's lines and keeping them comfortable, than anything else. People have all sorts of don't touch areas or don't look and if they don't relax the massage isn't much use.
Thomas you bring up a point that many women deal with daily. Having been raped or sexually abused, unless we have an attraction to other women, we are sleeping with the enemy so to speak. Given the numbers, estimated 1/4 of all women (US assume similar numbers there) have experienced this, (1/8 of all men have) we learn to cope. I've brought it up before; if 1 out of 4 women and 1 out of 8 men have been raped or molested, then when you are in crowd you are not only surrounded by victims of this but also by perpetrators. We rarely talk about the perpetrators, mostly men, often unidentified, who surround us in our daily lives. Weird energy.
Last edited by WildChild; 02-19-2011 at 07:16 AM.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
Good point Wildchild. We men often forget that a lot of girls/ladies have been abused. I can't say that it has done severe damage to me as I I have a very strong personality(if I were to divulge only half of what I went through as a child I'm sure you'd all be shocked!), suffice to say that, although I change with men after sport all the time, I do not like them in my "close zone". The only male who can come close to me is my son. I also get claustrophobic easily. Perhaps this comes from that time when I was abused. On the other hand, women have never harmed me, not physically anyway. And, even if I wasn't like this, I still would find the thought of ejaculating close to a man revolting even by accident !!!!!
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