Thread: I make my bf gag :(

Originally Posted by Seeker_Advice

as a part of your foreplay, put some pillows under your butt and/or lower back to raise that area up and ask him to kiss/nuzzle the insides of your thighs

I thought this was a great idea as he's said he loves the view and touching with his hands, but when I suggested this as an alternative he got kinda upset, asked me not to go on about it and he'd try again when he was in the mood.. whoops

I guess I'm being kinda selfish cos I dont think there's anything I wouldnt consider doing with/for him sexually if he asked, but this thing that almost every other guy seems to do naturally and even love it!... Argh. I guess I just dont want to miss out on something that others find so pleasurable.

It's ONLY being selfish IF you expect it of him without "giving" in return. Obviously, you do, so there is no issue from your side.

Honestly, I think he's being a bit selfish or self centered in not wanting to meet your needs. As I have said before, I am a bit biased when it comes to giving my partner pleasure, particularly the oral kind (LOVE IT), but I can tell you that things would have to be pretty objectionable to keep me away from giving oral.

Frankly, I think he's making excuses. There is a GREAT books on sex thread in here, started by none other than WildChild, that may help you and him in your desire for oral. One book I have studied (read it so much I could practically recite it) and recommended several times is She Comes First. An excellent read for all men.

Keep at it. Don't give up. Going down on a woman is pretty close to heaven on earth if you ask me.

Even though hygene may not be a problem, pee can have a strong sent and taste. It goes away in a very short while, but from the sounds of it he may not linger long enough. Have him try it immediately after you get out of the shower, and see if that change his mind.

I absolutely love and crave the scent and taste of my wife, but alas, she seems to be repulsed or otherwise uninterested in letting me down there much if at all.