Why am I horny ALL the time...?

**Jezzy143** · 02-21-2011 12:32 PM

I have been in the mood to just take my boyfriend anytime I get the chance. Trouble is, he's not always into it when I want it...
Which is probably my answer...

I'm 27 years old...could I be entering my peak?

**WildChild** · 02-21-2011 12:44 PM

I don't believe there is a peak. We all go through waves, up and down. Some of us have long high times of horniness with brief times of low interest, others have long high times of low interest with only brief times of interest. Many people are somewhere in between. Assuming you are healthy and your hormones are well balanced, the rest is dependent on where your head is.

**Jezzy143** · 02-21-2011 01:02 PM

It get aggravating. Cause I just feel like I crave it all the time, and yet I can't get it when I want. I try masterbating, but it doesn't seem to completely help the issue. I crave the actual sex...not just the orgasm..but the actual sex.

**Magnetism** · 02-23-2011 06:29 PM

Hi Jezzy,

I don't know you and your life. This may not apply to you, but I will share what it was like for me (in case you can relate to it).

For me, I was horny all of the time b/c I was using sex to avoid something else going on in my life. It's kind of like how some people abuse alcohol or food to numb their emotions. My sex drive had calmed down once I addressed what was really going on beneath the surface.

In any case, maybe you just have a high sex drive. Are your sexual thoughts making it hard for you to concentrate in other areas of your life?

**waya** · 02-23-2011 07:50 PM

Maybe it's him. I've been with someone that just being around him made me horny. It was just plain chemistry.

**WildChild** · 02-23-2011 08:30 PM

Originally Posted by waya

Maybe it's him. I've been with someone that just being around him made me horny. It was just plain chemistry.

Yep. Been there. It's great if he is as in to you are you are into him.

**Magnetism** · 02-23-2011 10:00 PM

Originally Posted by waya

Maybe it's him. I've been with someone that just being around him made me horny. It was just plain chemistry.

That's always a good feeling to have.

**jns** · 02-23-2011 11:09 PM

Originally Posted by Jezzy143

I have been in the mood to just take my boyfriend anytime I get the chance. Trouble is, he's not always into it when I want it...
Which is probably my answer...

I'm 27 years old...could I be entering my peak?

How often do you and your bf do it? Are you two doing it enough to keep your libido somewhat in check? How long have you two been in a relationship? Does your bf want you to initiate, or does he want to initiate? Does he object to you initiating?

**Texasred** · 02-24-2011 10:22 PM

Sometimes you find that the more you have sex, the more you want, and that seems to be perfectly natural.
And fun!
But it's a shame your bf isn't at the same place you are. I've got no ideas and no clever advice there, I'm afraid.

**WildChild** · 02-25-2011 12:26 AM

Do go for a quality experience but mix it up nothing wrong with a quickie now and then. When you have sex, is it good?
I'm with you, give me penetrative sex. All the play and lead up is fun and pleasurable but I want the real thing.