Thread: HELP!!!

Hi! im new here so this is my 1st post...

I need some advice, im 19 and i am sexually active. The problem with this is that i can feel anything when hes inside me... i've tried diffrent positions, i've tried putting a pillow under me so that penetration is deeper (this HURTS!) ive tried KY jelly..

With the 2 guys i was with before, i thought it was simply an issue of not being aroused, but with my boyfriend now, i am... Even when i penetrate myself with my vibrator, i dont feel it.. it takes FOREVER to orgasim using the vibrator to achieve clitoral stimulation.... I hate this feeling. I am able to cum but i dont feel that either.. it just happens.... i dont know what to do... i feel bad for faking it...

Can anyone help????

Oh..it could be a number of things. How often do you masturbate? Maybe it's a thing with desensitivity if you happen to do it a lot?

i do it all the time...

Maybe try doing it a little less, see if normal sensitivity returns. Give it a week's rest?
Might be worth a try.

If you are truly desensitized it may take longer than a week to get back the sensitivity. When men have premature ejaculation issues they are often told to stop masturbating altogether.

Like anything, using a vibrator in moderation is probably better than "all the time". For right now, I'd give it up cold turkey and remain vibrator free until the sensation returns.

Originally Posted by Seeker_Advice

When men have premature ejaculation issues they are often told to stop masturbating altogether

Aren't men with that issue overly sensitive? How would less stimulation change that? I'm having trouble with that analogy.

have you always felt this way. You talked about the two guys before, and thought it was not being aroused. I'm a guy, so I don't understand, but I kinda get the feeling that you either once felt sensation inside, or simply expect to, (as I expect you should) and of course, see a good understanding lady doctor.
but did you used to play around with your fingers before guys and feel sensation? I guess that's what I mean when I wonder about before guys.