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It's not always like that. I don't have any friends (women/men) who'd do such a thing with a vibrator in public, or joke about vibrators or even dare mention having one. I personally don't consider it funny either. It's all about the person you talk to and how open each one is to sexual/private discussions. If a man I barely know starts a discussion about masturbation or mention masturbation or joke about it, it will probably cross my mind that "he masturbates too often because he can't get a woman". People perceive/react differently.
Now, as for your wife, have you asked her how she'd feel if she caught you at it, or is this an assumption you make based on her behavior? By your post it seems as if you're not willing to do what she has told you she'd like you to do (i.e. walk in) because you don't believe it's fair that it's okay for her but not for you.
Nothing wrong with masturbating in front of your partner as foreplay either and it doesn't have to be a matter of "being caught", it can be easily done in bed.
It's all about communication and understanding. When we communicate (either verbally or through other direct means) then we become understood. When we don't communicate we cannot expect our partner to read our mind. When we communicate but our partner ignores our wishes, now, that's one big problem.
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Our sex life sometimes lags because we have different preferences. I wake up super horny, but she doesn't like morning sex. She wants it at night, but I tend to be tired. We each know the other masturbates to help offset our differences, but we also know we're always thinking of each other.
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