Female Squirting during sex - What does this mean?

**Tod121** · 03-08-2011 09:56 AM

Hi, I have been with my wife now for nearly 20 years and she has never squirted....until now. We were having an extended foreplay session and I was massaging her G spot and clit at the same time, she appeared to be having multi orgasms (I say appeared as I wouldnt be so arrogant as to know) and all of a sudden she squirted! I have seen this in porn clips and read that it is wee, does anyone KNOW for sure? Does anyone know WHY this happends, why after almost 20 years? OK it may be natural but its the 1st time I have seen this in the flesh, want to know your oppinions whether this is generally a good thing and why it happens? Turn or or turn off for you?

**LanaBear** · 03-08-2011 09:58 AM

Originally Posted by Tod121

Hi, I have been with my wife now for nearly 20 years and she has never squirted....until now. We were having an extended foreplay session and I was massaging her G spot and clit at the same time, she appeared to be having multi orgasms (I say appeared as I wouldnt be so arrogant as to know) and all of a sudden she squirted! I have seen this in porn clips and read that it is wee, does anyone KNOW for sure? Does anyone know WHY this happends, why after almost 20 years? OK it may be natural but its the 1st time I have seen this in the flesh, want to know your oppinions whether this is generally a good thing and why it happens? Turn or or turn off for you?

I just responded to your post on the other thread.

It's not pee... It doesn't smell or look like pee. It is produced by the Skene's gland through g-spot stimulation. Equating it to pee is kind of like saying a man's cum is pee. Just because it comes out of the same hole doesn't mean it is pee. Most women produce it, however, since it causes a feeling like you really really need to pee, they hold it in afraid that it is urine. They will later pass it while using the restroom. It means intense pleasure and hopefully you didn't show any disgust from it when it happened. My hubby thinks it is the best thing EVER. It anything, be happy that she FINALLY felt comfortable enough and relaxed enough to let it go during the moment.

**Tod121** · 03-08-2011 10:08 AM

No, I didnt show any disgust, much the opposite as she did seem greatly turned on when she did it and I had read a discussion as to whether it was pee or not and as it didnt smell like pee I was just amazed by it!

**LanaBear** · 03-08-2011 10:11 AM

Good for you! It's a very very intense feeling. My arousal has to be pretty much out of this world for it to happen and when it does, the feeling is insane.

**Seeker_Advice** · 03-08-2011 10:46 AM

Woo Hoo! Yours does it too! When stimulating my SOs G-spot, it's the ultimate result! I love it!

**kristalyn_04** · 03-08-2011 11:21 AM

I've actually had it happen without g-spot stimulation, while masturbating usually at the second orgasm... it's so intense sometimes that I release a little bit of fluid. I don't "squirt" in the actual sense of the word, it just trickles out. Hopefully someday a man can bring me to such an intense orgasm that I'll be squirting like a water gun lol.

**monoliths&dimentions** · 03-08-2011 10:12 PM

It's an odorless colorless liquid that it secreted for lubrication known as female ejaculate, it is brought on by a g spot or clitoral orgasm. It's an amazing thing really, I find the most built up orgasms cause this to happen along with body spasms from intense pleasure. If she is ejaculating a bunch of liquid make sure to have her drink lots of water after as this sort of pleasure can dehydrate you. Continue whatever you're doing, I'm sure your wife won't complain.

**Poschia** · 03-08-2011 11:10 PM

i never knew all this, am one of the woman who hold it in couse i think it's pee.. thanx y'all

**Tod121** · 03-09-2011 09:22 AM

Hi ya, thanks for all your feedback so far. Its been very reassuring that this seems fairly common and regarded as something positive to say the least. Do you reckon that now that we have got to this level of orgasm it is easily repeatable, I know what I did different to normal and feel I could do the same again. I saw a G spot stimulation video on youtube and it said that just because a women likes it one way one day doesnt mean she'll like it the next time. Also, do you think (and be honest here!) that it matters HOW you reach this level of orgasm, what would have made this perfect for me and maybe for her, is if she came like this with my penis inside her rather than my fingers (this doesnt detract from what we did achive), is this likely?

**monoliths&dimentions** · 03-09-2011 06:33 PM

I've never been able to squirt by penile penetration alone need some clitoral simulation, also something cannot be inside me it's got to be removed before it'll happen.. for me that is, tons of women are different try out different things.
If she is okay with it maybe try anal penetration with a vibrating toy and clitoral stimulation, that always does it for me, I know a few other women that works for as well. Sex is an endless exploration so enjoy it and enjoy finding out what makes you guys happy. Try not to focus on making her do it as that will probably just frustrate you more thinking about it, and vice versa for her, I know the first time I did I tried so hard to make it happen again and it was awful, just close your eyes enjoy the moment and relax, I'm sure it'll happen.