Thread: Does anyone else like to show?

I get really turned on by the thought of women accidently seeing my unit. Or wanting to see it. Im not a nudest but I find it a big turn on for some reason. Example, I go to a friends house from time to time swimming in the summer. When im changing and I know she or any female are in the house or area I am I leave the door open just a crack so if they looked they could see. I guess its a rush and some what taboo? Anyone else do this. I can't put my finger on it but somthing about the entire idea turns me on.

To me, for you, it seems more about the "fear' or "risk" of getting "caught" naked. My SO and I have shared intimacy in some pretty public places and the "fear/risk" of being seen or gtting caught by strangers tends to heighten the excitement of it all.

As for being nude like ata nudist resort, that's something altogether different. There is nothing arousing (for me) about spending time at a nudist resort. Something "freeing" perhaps...is that even a word? butt nothing to get aroused about.

Being nude, in a social setting, like a nudist resort, in front of strangers, who are also nude, and in all different shapes, sizes and ages is interesting.

I am most comfortable at adults only nudist resorts.

I tend to be somewhat of an exhibitionist, so yes, I understand. When it starts to make other people uncomfortable, though, it's a paraphilia and it's a problem.

I find it kind of creepy lol, but hey its whatever you like.

I would feel violated if someone was watching me, but I guess if you know your being watched and want it to happen, its different.

Leaving a door cracked on purpose hoping to be seen is pushing it, but going out of your way to expose yourself to unsuspecting females could wind you up in trouble. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at / watched - its called exhibitionism -- and there are many outlets you could use where you show yourself off to people that are actually WANTING to see what you are showing, such as with a girlfriend thats into it, or via some craigslist casual encounter or webcamming sites, etc...

You have to keep in mind that the vast majority of women going on about their day don't want to be confronted with the sight of just any man's penis -- its not like it is with men who would probably love to bump into a nude situation... most women need to have an interest in a man before the site of his penis does anything for them.

For me I would be embarrassed, shocked, disturbed or possibly all three if some random guy exposed himself to me. I would not be aroused at all. My question is... is it that you just want someone to see you? Or is the fact that its someone that is being surprised by seeing you that turns you on most? If its the first... thats pretty common, if its the latter... you should keep it to fantasy and or roleplay.

I like being watched, but by my boyfriend... and before I met him I like dancing around and goofing off on cam sites for the attention etc... so its not that I think wanting to be looked at is strange... i think its just not cool to force someone to see something they had no intention of seeing.