Thread: Boyfirend not interested in sex, would rather watch porn

I don't think anyone, female or male who is sexually functional and desires sexual relations with a partner should be expected to live with a situation where their partner is essentially asexual or diverting their sexual energy elsewhere.

We get a lot of people here who are in such mismatched relationships and unwilling to leave and want a way to "fix" their partner. We all put a lot of energy into suggesting ways that might happen but the truth is in most cases nothing will change unless the person with the low/diverted sex drive choses to do something different. The exception to that are cases where the complaining partner's behavior, sometimes over many years, has been a factor in the situation. In that case if and when they learn to change how they are approaching and interacting, this may be rectified.

Miss cannot make her bf stop watching porn and focus his attentions on her. She can make it very clear (no hints) what she wants, how often and that if changes don't occur within a specified time that she won't be there any more. She can go find a man who likes to make the kitty purr.