boyfriend's penis feels weird?

**kaleidoscopelove** · 03-29-2011 11:50 PM

Okay so i've been having sex with my boyfriend for over a year. Just recently i went to give him head and when it was in my mouth, the tip felt weird as if hairs were wrapped around it.. thats the best way i can explain it, as i have never experienced this before. But when i took it out of my mouth there were no hairs in my mouth and there was nothing on his penis. Does anyone know what i mean? Has anyone ever experienced this with their partner? could it be an std or something? please help!

**Seeker_Advice** · 03-30-2011 06:27 AM

When in doubt, have it checked out!

Have you and your BF ever been checked? Together is better because there is no chance of one being dishonest to the other. So go get checked, same doctor, same appointment and tell the doctor that you want one to know the other's results. You may have to sign a release of some sort.

**WildChild** · 03-30-2011 07:05 AM

Could it have been underwear fuzz? Or some dried pre cum?

**kaleidoscopelove** · 03-30-2011 08:29 PM

Originally Posted by Seeker_Advice

When in doubt, have it checked out!

Have you and your BF ever been checked? Together is better because there is no chance of one being dishonest to the other. So go get checked, same doctor, same appointment and tell the doctor that you want one to know the other's results. You may have to sign a release of some sort.

We've never been checked out :x i've never got around to it, and i know that sounds bad because i know this stuff is super important but i never thought i had a reason to. & he was never the promiscuous type (i know his 2 exs & one of them i know for sure is clean) but how do i go about bringing it up?

**kaleidoscopelove** · 03-30-2011 08:30 PM

Originally Posted by WildChild

Could it have been underwear fuzz? Or some dried pre cum?

i don't think so, there was nothing visible, and its been like this the past 2 times i went down on him so i doubt it's pre-cum :/ i'm just worried it could be something bad

**oxy-moron** · 03-30-2011 10:40 PM

There is a ridge of tiny glands on the head of the penis- they are normal and are there to secrete a waxy substance. Sebaceous Glands is the technical name.
They can become prominent(slightly raised) from time to time but are normal . They are on the top ridge close to where it meets the shaft.
If they were slightly raised you would be able to feel them. Might be what you are noticing. Otherwise a stray hair maybe?

**kaleidoscopelove** · 03-30-2011 10:50 PM

Originally Posted by oxy-moron

There is a ridge of tiny glands on the head of the penis- they are normal and are there to secrete a waxy substance. Sebaceous Glands is the technical name.
They can become prominent(slightly raised) from time to time but are normal . They are on the top ridge close to where it meets the shaft.
If they were slightly raised you would be able to feel them. Might be what you are noticing. Otherwise a stray hair maybe?

I'm pretty sure it wasn't a stray hair. But it could be the glands. I've just never experienced anything like this before. I'll have to do some more reasearching, i'd rather it be the glands than something more serious obviously lol

**oxy-moron** · 03-31-2011 12:38 AM

Search on pearly penile papules. The pearly part is because they form a straight line like a pearl necklace.
seen in men 20- 30s and in uncircumcised men. Usually disappear with age.
Not a big deal.

**kaleidoscopelove** · 03-31-2011 10:00 PM

Originally Posted by oxy-moron

Search on pearly penile papules. The pearly part is because they form a straight line like a pearl necklace.
seen in men 20- 30s and in uncircumcised men. Usually disappear with age.
Not a big deal.

Nope it doesn't look anything like that lol. I thought about it more and i almost wanna say they feel like little scrapes or cuts even..idk :/

**Seeker_Advice** · 04-01-2011 08:32 AM

How do you bring it up? DIRECTLY.

"Hey honey, I'd like both of us to go get checked for STDs together. Same appointment, same physician and we agree to let the physician share each other's results (even if we have to sign a waiver), what do you think?"

or

"Hey babe, I'd like us to go and get checked out together...would it be okay if I scheduled an appointment?"

IMO - this is not something to take lightly, blow off or procrastinate about. You sense something is different with his anatomy and he may not even be aware of it.

If he says no, throws a fit, says unkind things or reacts poorly to your suggestion...this should be a MAJOR RED FLAG ! (IMO)

Any MAN who really LOVES his woman should be willing to do almost anything to put her mind at ease about any concern she may have - IMO.