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    This probably falls into some fantasy catagory but here goes.

    Ladies, if your husband wanted to walk in on you pleasuring yourself would you? Keeping in mind she's never done it before and rarely if ever masturbates. But we have on a few occasions done it mutually.

    I do it to her a few times a year and she enjoys the suprise. I'll get in bed while she's in the shower, when she comes out I'm there taking care of business. She basically runs over to make sure I don't finish it so she can. She says it's hot to see me doing that not knowing before hand.
    How I would like to do the same to her.

    I don't understand why she won't do it for me. Even if it's something she wouldn't normally do, it's only one time here and there.

    While she's somewhat conservative she calls me Tri-sexual. I'll try anything sexual.

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    My wife would just let me keep doing my thing, ignoring me the whole time. I'd get the disgusted look and she'd just leave the room.

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    Sure, I'd have no problem with that.

    But some women are just very private about that and are embarrassed to even mention it, even with their spouse. You can try just talking to her and getting her to open up to it a little more, but if not then just leave it alone.
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    LOL - not a problem for me. Hubby's never walked in on me, but we watch each other frequently. No biggie, totally hot. I don't even consider it masturbation when we do it together, lol.
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    No problem. But I think a lot of women are unsure about their bodies or about seeming to be overtly sexual.
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    If I was actually doing myself for once, I rarely if ever do, then I would be completely embarrassed and stop. Some things I would like to remain private and that rare masturbating occurrence is one of those things. He would likely coax me into doing it again because it makes him so hot so I would rub but I know I would never be able to actually finish while rubbing it would be more of a visual treat for him. We have done the mutual thing, I can rarely cum with my fingers anyway so yeah its more of just the thought for him that I am next to him rubbing away.
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    Wow, not judging anyone but I just don't understand how people can share years together with someone, every intimate life detail as well as body fluids, but cringe at the thought of being seen masturbating for pleasure by their spouse.

    I wouldn't want my wife involved in every session I do as I do enjoy it privately as well, but her watching or helping me is a huge turn on for both of us. But getting her to do it is like ItsASecret said, and she does it so rarely, if at all, I don't even know about it.
    I would like her to on occasion though, even if it's just the visual for me.
    It took me years to get her to go nude at the pool, now she loves it. Pretty sure this would fall the same way. Just have to open her mind up to it somehow.

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    but cringe at the thought of being seen masturbating for pleasure by their spouse.
    I do not see it as a cringe "oh god this is the end of the world" type scenario...not at all. I am just a person by nature who does not like being the center of attention or those sorts of things. So being watched, even if it is in admiration, causes an anxious feeling in me but over the years I have become much better at not saying "no" to everything proposed and I can just let the majority of things simply happen for the sake of me not wanting to always say no no no no. So it is like if he catches me I know he will be super dooper aroused but I will not be like "oh my god I am the center of visual attention yippee soooo arousing"...not the case at he knows that but it is still arousing to him to watch me at least rubbing down there. I can at the very least rub there no problem for him say in the middle of sex but what I do not end up doing is actually finishing. Masturbating itself is not arousing for me that is why I rarely do it so obviously it is not going to be something I will try to make happen I guess you can say.
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    Interesting question....

    I can't recall a time when either of us have walked in on the other. Then again, we live in seperate houses, both are employed and each have children, so the time we are together is generally spent with each other.

    IF it were ever to occur, I can't imagine that it would be a big deal at all. It would probably be more like, "hey, you wanna join in here?"

    I'm not a big masturbator and never have been. I believe that she is a frequent masturbator due in part to her high sex drive and the pleasure she feels from getting herself off.

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