positional advice
This is embarrassing, but here goes . . . .Due to the way we are both built,particularly the position and the angle of my womb, his being able to stay INSIDE me through the various gyrations of intercourse is a challenge. We are hoping to find some advice on the best positions to use to prevent this or any other advice.
Please explain what is happening in more detail and include what has happened with various positions you have tried. What do you mean: "the way we are both built" and "the angle of my womb."
I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
Patrick Henry
I have a tilted pelvis (I guess that is why it is) but my entry is lower and at such an angle that in either missionary position or on top he comes out when thrusting many times. His "angle of erection" is "perky" and he is of average size. That's the best I have to offer by means of explanation. We are older (50s) so any really strenuous positions are probably out of the question, but we'd really appreciate any ideas....
Do you have trouble with doggy style or spooning?
I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
...
Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
Patrick Henry
The problem with that is that I like to face my man and I think doggie style is gross. Even if it feels good, it really makes the whole matter just seem like sex - and let's face it, I want to make love to my man. Spooning may be difficult for the afore-mentioned reasons
Crazykitty- You have ruled out a lot of good positions however you could try lying on your back in standard missionary position with knees up. He is on his side making a T shape. This position frees up both his hands to play ,stroke and massage. You can still see each other.
To give more detail, he will thrust by rolling his hips or body with his top hip coming toward you and then rolling away.Originally Posted by oxy-moron
An alternate is your far leg, the one furthest from his head will be slightly up and slightly bended and he traps it at the upper thigh between his lower thigh and his upper thigh.
I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
...
Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
Patrick Henry
no, I haven't ruled them out, per se, just looking for alternatives for the more romantic times. Even if I don't prefer doggy style, it certainly is fun, but when in the mood to "make love" not just "set busy", it's just not the optimum for intimacy on a romantic level. I appreciate all the information, and making use of same.
Try a pillow under your hips.
Put your legs around his waist.
Put your feet up over his shoulders.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
Those are all good.
Also the "cowgirl" position: man lying on his back, woman sitting across his hips, either kneeling or with knees raised. This last gives very deep penetration, not much chance of "fallout," and provides the man a great view of his partner!
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