Thread: Got a massage today...

I'm a young guy, that has no problems in bed. I can get it up and it stays up until my partner is satisfied. So there haven't been any problems in bed as far as my concern...

So that being said, I got my very first massage today. It was my first time ever getting a massage, and the place was offering a special of only 25 dollars for 30 mins. It was going really well, and the massage was well worth the money. So... I don't know about most guys who get a massage, but I couldn't help but get a bit hard when she was rubbing me down from head to toe. I assumed these masseuses understand, so I just tried to ignore it and let her do the massage. So it was almost done and she told me to turn over. I was kind of embarrassed because I definitely had a semi. I turned over and embarrassingly said "Yeah... Sorry about that". She said it was okay, and she started to stroke me. I was kind of shocked about the whole thing. I am fully aware of "happy endings" but I thought that sort of thing was rare and they only do it for extra money.

But it felt really good, and I definitely wasn't going to stop her.... Here's when it gets really embarrassing for me... I know what you're thinking, she stroked me 2 times and I came faster than anything before. But it was the total opposite. I COULD NOT come. She was stroking me pretty hard for at least 5 mins, and I thought I was going to come for sure, but I just couldn't for some reason... I told her she could stop and thanked her for the massage and the surprise at the end. Then I left feeling so bad because I really wanted to come but it didn't happen.

What went wrong here? Has any other guys had this happen before?

Are you in a relationship? If so, maybe you were feeling guilty about what was happening. If not, maybe there was a feeling of it being wrong because she was supposed to be in a professional work setting. Perhaps that feeling of it being "forbidden" and her being a stranger made you uncomfortable and so you couldn't come. Although some guys find the whole forbidden thing hot and erotic, some don't which is ok.

Honestly I've never heard of a masseuse giving a "happy ending" in a professional workplace, at least not in the US. They could lose their jobs over that, which might not be worth the extra tips.

Originally Posted by kristalyn04

Are you in a relationship? If so, maybe you were feeling guilty about what was happening. If not, maybe there was a feeling of it being wrong because she was supposed to be in a professional work setting. Perhaps that feeling of it being "forbidden" and her being a stranger made you uncomfortable and so you couldn't come. Although some guys find the whole forbidden thing hot and erotic, some don't which is ok.

Honestly I've never heard of a masseuse giving a "happy ending" in a professional workplace, at least not in the US. They could lose their jobs over that, which might not be worth the extra tips.

I'm not in a relationship right now, and I wasn't feeling guilty.

Also I don't know what the rules and laws are on happy endings, but I don't think it's anything to be worried about as a masseuse. I live in Canada, so I don't know what it's like in the US. But generally it's usually an agreement between 2 adults and the person receiving the massage has ever right to say no thanks. As for the professional workplace, I'm not going to lie... It wasn't a high class upscale massage parlor, It was a small building in a market square downtown. I don't even think she works for anyone, probably does it herself for the money.

Anyways, thanks for the suggestion, but I don't think that was the problem.