Please Help Me!!!

06-01-2006, 03:49 PM

I had no trouble achieving orgasm the first two years I was with my boyfriend. Then we began a long distance relationship and I began using my vibrator all the time when he was away. And now I cannot respond to anything else besides that stimulation! I want things to go back to the way they were, yet nothing he does works any more. I can't even achieve orgasm myself lying in front of him.

Help!!!

06-02-2006, 09:21 PM

Maybe concentrate more on the sensual side of sex -- Use a feather to tickle -- Play a naughty game -- Try a new routine?

I could see how your problem started - They should put warnings on the vibrators -- Some just feel so darn good

**AFemaleProdigy** · 06-05-2006, 10:36 AM

Believe it or not, this is actually a common side effect of using a vibrator! Vibrators are so stimulating that they desensitize you to everything else. You will either have to stop using the vibrator for a long time to get your old senses back, or start using the vibrator during sex. Some women can only have an orgasm when combining the two. It's also a state of mind. If you are worrying and stressing about if and when you are going to have an orgasm, you will just make it harder on yourself.

06-01-2006, 03:49 PM	#1
imported_medi606 Guest Posts: n/a	Please Help Me!!! I had no trouble achieving orgasm the first two years I was with my boyfriend. Then we began a long distance relationship and I began using my vibrator all the time when he was away. And now I cannot respond to anything else besides that stimulation! I want things to go back to the way they were, yet nothing he does works any more. I can't even achieve orgasm myself lying in front of him. Help!!!

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06-02-2006, 09:21 PM	#2
imported_lorlormarie Guest Posts: n/a	Maybe concentrate more on the sensual side of sex -- Use a feather to tickle -- Play a naughty game -- Try a new routine? I could see how your problem started - They should put warnings on the vibrators -- Some just feel so darn good

06-05-2006, 10:36 AM	#3
AFemaleProdigy Veteran Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Ohio Posts: 888 Blog Entries: 1	Believe it or not, this is actually a common side effect of using a vibrator! Vibrators are so stimulating that they desensitize you to everything else. You will either have to stop using the vibrator for a long time to get your old senses back, or start using the vibrator during sex. Some women can only have an orgasm when combining the two. It's also a state of mind. If you are worrying and stressing about if and when you are going to have an orgasm, you will just make it harder on yourself.