Ok, just to be honest here I have talked to close friends before and mentioned a man's size but that's not really what the conversation was about. It was more like logistics and tips. ie Because of his size this position is uncomfortable or that position doesn't really work, is there another way to get that feeling? But we didn't actually want to swap info on our men's packages.
It seems like it may be your way to deal with the insecurities you have in regards to sex -------- to relive the fulfillment in a fantasy/other peoples eyes and experiences.
I would concentrate on geting yourself better, working on any issues that only you know are preventing you from enjoying sex. Could the problem stem from a negative self-image which can lead to poor self esteem and so on.....
Our experiences to a degree shape the way we act and think today. Spend too much time lingering onto other peoples experiences and you will have little time to make your own.
I am going to tell you what you don't want to hear!
Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't
See yourself as a man, reverse it, does he want his woman to have fantasies of other men, yet he respects that, embrases that and says no one owns anyone in life?
Sounds family to a recent thread by a man only reverse.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
BTW - Men who talk about their intimacy with their partner/SO/spouse to other men, are not men at all, but pigs - IMO.
Sounds like the jokes about getting lost while driving, where the women ask for directions and the men don't.Originally Posted by waya
I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
Patrick Henry
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