Thread: Giving women oral sex and hygene.

Thanks for the insight here. She is always clean and showers daily and after the gym, but when she comes over my place I can't tell if she just showered or hasn't since the morning. I really care about her so I would never want to hurt her. I like the idea of not spending the time down there if it isn't what it usually is. Thank you for a mature answer to a difficult situation. I usually bring her to orgasm before heading north again. Maybe if I head up sooner she will not catch on to my new idea? I hope.

Originally Posted by Jim60

As to your dilema, how about you turning down a BJ next time she heads down there saying you didn't shower and it wouldn't be nice for her? She might get the hint. It's a delicate subject.

I think this is the best choice so far. It's how I would rather be told, and if she doesn't quite get it you can always be more direct later.

Procedd with caution...lots of it.

As this is a 'high risk' low reward topic of conversation - IMO.

It sounds to me like you might be a little over sensitive to your perception of "fresh".

As an enormous fan of cunnilingus, I find that it is different almost every time...technique, presentation, length of activity, etc.

So, go with the flow and realize that she may be different each time too.

That's tough!!! If it smells like fish, make it a dish! Well, no thanks, and I don't want to smell your locker-room balls either, my dear XD bahaha. Just tell her very politely, and NOT at a time when she's ready for sex!! That occasionally, *maybe even use the word RARELY or almost NEVER...lol* she isn't as... eh... flowery? As you'd like? Lol. I don't know what you could use to word it. Bring it up nicely, and go about it easily and carefully... My fiance just simply started asking me, "did you shower today/last night?" and really, I wasn't that offended. Nobody likes raw tuna or... sweaty sausage? ^_^ tee-hee I'm an ss. Best advice, be pre-pared if she DOESN'T take it so nicely!!