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    Hi all,

    I need some advice! When I masturbate (I touch my clitoris) and I can have an orgasm and it's always intense and amazing but when I have sex I find it really hard to climax, it's like when a penis is inside me, my clitoris isnt sensitive..I can't orgasm with just sex alone, I need to touch myself.
    I did come once during sex, by clitoral stimulation, my orgasm wasn't intense....
    Can someone help me understand why?? It's frustrating...

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    Well first, there are no rules that you can't touch your clitoris during intercourse. I do it all the time. In fact, when you do it doggy style, there is no way for your guy's member to rub your clit. Either you do it or ask your partner to reach under you and rub. If your guy is on top, you just have to adjust your position (I find pillows under my bum are helpful) so there is clitoral stimulation. Good luck and don't be afraid to do some touching yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by katty33 View Post
    Hi all,

    I need some advice! When I masturbate (I touch my clitoris) and I can have an orgasm and it's always intense and amazing but when I have sex I find it really hard to climax, it's like when a penis is inside me, my clitoris isnt sensitive..I can't orgasm with just sex alone, I need to touch myself.
    I did come once during sex, by clitoral stimulation, my orgasm wasn't intense....
    Can someone help me understand why?? It's frustrating...
    Probably because you were distracted by the sex and didn't get to the dream state that causes you to reach the most intense orgasm. If you try girl on top you may be able to orgasm as you can get the clitoral stimulation you need and the being in charge may give you a scenario you find sexy.
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    The thing is I do touch my clitoris during sex but it just doesn't feel...as sensitive as when I do it when I don't have a penis inside me...does this make sense? I came once with clitoral stimulation when I was having sex but it was not as intense as when im masturbating alone....does that make sense?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jns View Post
    Probably because you were distracted by the sex and didn't get to the dream state that causes you to reach the most intense orgasm. If you try girl on top you may be able to orgasm as you can get the clitoral stimulation you need and the being in charge may give you a scenario you find sexy.
    Girl on top feels uncomfortable....it feels like i'm going to pee - it's just...odd..

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    Quote Originally Posted by katty33 View Post
    Girl on top feels uncomfortable....it feels like i'm going to pee - it's just...odd..
    If you peed before having sex, you may be on the verge of female ejaculation.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jns View Post
    If you peed before having sex, you may be on the verge of female ejaculation.
    I didnt pee, it just feels like that kind of pressure...but uncomfortable?

    I'm confusing everyone i think haha..

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