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    I recently just started having sex with my gf and she loves it when I go down on her. I give her oral + 1 finger stimulation in the vagina.

    She says shes likes it but I feel I can do more, or get more of a reaction from her. I'm a bit new to giving oral and not sure whats better

    1) using 1 finger for more precision of stimulating the gspot

    or 2) using 2 fingers and being a little rough.

    does it hurt them when you use 2 fingers?

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    I recently just started having sex with my gf and she loves it when I go down on her. I give her oral + 1 finger stimulation in the vagina.

    She says shes likes it but I feel I can do more, or get more of a reaction from her. I'm a bit new to giving oral and not sure whats better

    1) using 1 finger for more precision of stimulating the gspot

    or 2) using 2 fingers and being a little rough.

    does it hurt them when you use 2 fingers?
    No, it doesn't hurt, just don't be too rough. A penis is usually as thick or thicker than 2 fingers. You can also try anal play if you're both ok with that. Here's a thread with a lot of discussion on the subject of performing oral on a woman:

    http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...-thinking.html
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    Oral is best done on the clitoris or clitoral hood in most cases. Are you doing that?
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    Yes, I use my tongue to play with the clitoris and my finger to stimulate the gspot (I think?).

    I just heard that maybe using 2 fingers and being a little rough (but not too rough) could be much more better.

    Ill take a look in that thread, thanks!

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    It only gets too rough and sometimes hurts if there is not enough lubrication.
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    I think it depends on her level of sensitivity... sometimes that can be too much stimulation... best to work up to it and gauge her reaction.

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